Hey I have a huge dilemma that I need help with ASAP. I’m going out with this girl that I extremely like, well the problem is that its been a month now and I feel like things are kind of dieing out, like that spark is missing. It could be of many reasons maybe because we’ve only had sex 3 times in the past month, or because were so dyam busy with school and work and when we do find time were tired. What should I do?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Things Are Dieing Out Quick Help!!!!!
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
amoka
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Is she your girlfriend? If not, are you trying to make her your girfriend? If not why worry things are dying out? If you want her to be your girlfriend and she is not doing much or not her interest level is dying out, just let her go. Let her be the one worrying whether you are the "hit and run" type of guy. She should be doing more to want to be your girlfriend, not the other way around. I would halt all communications with her, for at least a two weeks. If she does not call you, so be it. If she calls, talk to her and book a date with her.
Yea we've been going out for a month now, actually tonight is our one month, and before all this we were friends for 2 years. I can't really explain how much I’ve learned in the past 2 years lets just say I accomplished more in 2 months than I did 2 years, but that’s another story. She’s showing me a lot of affection, but you know when you have something you doubt it and when you don't you feel loss?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
hey, i've been friends with this chick also, we're good friends and lately i started to like her as more than friends, how did you transition to that next level. moving out of the friendzone? was it a slow process or happened all the sudden?rob23 said:
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honestly my situation was pretty bad, i didn't make a move on her for 2 years and let her ex run the "game".
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
it helped me a lot got me where i am now, but honestly ive realized getting the girl is the easy part, but actually getting her to stay is the hard part.
honestly my situation was pretty bad, i didn't make a move on her for 2 years and let her ex run the "game".
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
it helped me a lot got me where i am now, but honestly ive realized getting the girl is the easy part, but actually getting her to stay is the hard part.
NickSCFC2000
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There's a seperate forum for school children's problems.
Please use that one.
Please use that one.
Prodigy746
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Do some action dates, they are always fun