Hey I have a huge dilemma that I need help with ASAP. I’m going out with this girl that I extremely like, well the problem is that its been a month now and I feel like things are kind of dieing out, like that spark is missing. It could be of many reasons maybe because we’ve only had sex 3 times in the past month, or because were so dyam busy with school and work and when we do find time were tired. What should I do?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Things Are Dieing Out Quick Help!!!!!
- Thread starter rob23
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Is she your girlfriend? If not, are you trying to make her your girfriend? If not why worry things are dying out? If you want her to be your girlfriend and she is not doing much or not her interest level is dying out, just let her go. Let her be the one worrying whether you are the "hit and run" type of guy. She should be doing more to want to be your girlfriend, not the other way around. I would halt all communications with her, for at least a two weeks. If she does not call you, so be it. If she calls, talk to her and book a date with her.
Yea we've been going out for a month now, actually tonight is our one month, and before all this we were friends for 2 years. I can't really explain how much I’ve learned in the past 2 years lets just say I accomplished more in 2 months than I did 2 years, but that’s another story. She’s showing me a lot of affection, but you know when you have something you doubt it and when you don't you feel loss?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
hey, i've been friends with this chick also, we're good friends and lately i started to like her as more than friends, how did you transition to that next level. moving out of the friendzone? was it a slow process or happened all the sudden?rob23 said:
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honestly my situation was pretty bad, i didn't make a move on her for 2 years and let her ex run the "game".
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
it helped me a lot got me where i am now, but honestly ive realized getting the girl is the easy part, but actually getting her to stay is the hard part.
honestly my situation was pretty bad, i didn't make a move on her for 2 years and let her ex run the "game".
http://www.sosuave.com/articles/escaping.htm
it helped me a lot got me where i am now, but honestly ive realized getting the girl is the easy part, but actually getting her to stay is the hard part.
NickSCFC2000
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There's a seperate forum for school children's problems.
Please use that one.
Please use that one.
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Do some action dates, they are always fun