lizardking82
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I am curious what you guys have to say about this.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
They want to hug the daddy bodies and **** the fit bodies
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I am curious what you guys have to say about this.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
lizardking82
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Some of the comments in the video say that they would go for a relationship with the daddy bodies, but would cheat on the side anytime with a guy like Chad LOL
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^This. "Chad is never sad."
In the still picture version before you click it, she's looking downwards at Chad, either at his abs or crotch or both.
With the Dad bod guy, she's not giving him a full hug. She's turned 90 degrees to him and giving him the sideboob friendzone hug.
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Probably because us fit bodied guys are viewed as "narcissistic," "self-centered," etc etc. Also, less likely to have a personality because we focus our energy on the superficial things. On the contrary, the guys with dad bods are not too concerned with how they look and have a tendency to have more to offer in regards of personality. That's typically the stereotype that's dawned on these type of guys by society.
However, as you may know, you cannot place everyone in a category because of past experiences or sheepish ways.
However, as you may know, you cannot place everyone in a category because of past experiences or sheepish ways.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Standard hypergamy... a girl will sneak sex with Chad anytime she can. Pretty extreme example. Not many real Chads to go around the female population. And plenty of guys like me who have what I would call the dad bod Plus. I.e. carrying a bit of weight but are muscular and fit as well. Long weekend here I played 3 hours of badminton plus weights on Saturday 3 hours of tennis on Sunday and have done two days yard work since. Not at the standard of an ESPI but obviously still useful.
wifehunter
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Fat is ugly.
mrgoodstuff
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Fat "cools" lust.
PeasantPlayer
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Guys with the name of Chad do not get women
On a more serious note, women will date down depending on their circumstances at the moment. If they have been drained by an Alpha or alphas they will usually pull back and date dad bod to recover her EGO and self esteem. One she is done leaching everything she will bounce back to "Chad" with the fit body and get plowed like snow in a driveway
On a more serious note, women will date down depending on their circumstances at the moment. If they have been drained by an Alpha or alphas they will usually pull back and date dad bod to recover her EGO and self esteem. One she is done leaching everything she will bounce back to "Chad" with the fit body and get plowed like snow in a driveway
wifehunter
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Or, turns it off!
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
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So Alpha's always "drain" them of ego and esteem? They never feel "filled" by it? Expanded, like it's lifted them?Guys with the name of Chad do not get women
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He means if its a woman who got outgamed
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This makes sense! IT is a matter of finding that balance between focusing on your looks (feminine) versus still presenting the masculine frame. This is why while it is important to get in shape, eat healthy, and take care of your appearance, but don't make it your focus on life.
Probably trips girls up when guys are really fit, then intelligent and well-spoken too. This is the place I hope to get to once I get in shape...