lizardking82
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I am curious what you guys have to say about this.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
They want to hug the daddy bodies and **** the fit bodies
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I am curious what you guys have to say about this.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
lizardking82
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Some of the comments in the video say that they would go for a relationship with the daddy bodies, but would cheat on the side anytime with a guy like Chad LOL
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^This. "Chad is never sad."
In the still picture version before you click it, she's looking downwards at Chad, either at his abs or crotch or both.
With the Dad bod guy, she's not giving him a full hug. She's turned 90 degrees to him and giving him the sideboob friendzone hug.
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Probably because us fit bodied guys are viewed as "narcissistic," "self-centered," etc etc. Also, less likely to have a personality because we focus our energy on the superficial things. On the contrary, the guys with dad bods are not too concerned with how they look and have a tendency to have more to offer in regards of personality. That's typically the stereotype that's dawned on these type of guys by society.
However, as you may know, you cannot place everyone in a category because of past experiences or sheepish ways.
However, as you may know, you cannot place everyone in a category because of past experiences or sheepish ways.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Standard hypergamy... a girl will sneak sex with Chad anytime she can. Pretty extreme example. Not many real Chads to go around the female population. And plenty of guys like me who have what I would call the dad bod Plus. I.e. carrying a bit of weight but are muscular and fit as well. Long weekend here I played 3 hours of badminton plus weights on Saturday 3 hours of tennis on Sunday and have done two days yard work since. Not at the standard of an ESPI but obviously still useful.
wifehunter
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Fat is ugly.
mrgoodstuff
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Fat "cools" lust.
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Guys with the name of Chad do not get women
On a more serious note, women will date down depending on their circumstances at the moment. If they have been drained by an Alpha or alphas they will usually pull back and date dad bod to recover her EGO and self esteem. One she is done leaching everything she will bounce back to "Chad" with the fit body and get plowed like snow in a driveway
On a more serious note, women will date down depending on their circumstances at the moment. If they have been drained by an Alpha or alphas they will usually pull back and date dad bod to recover her EGO and self esteem. One she is done leaching everything she will bounce back to "Chad" with the fit body and get plowed like snow in a driveway
wifehunter
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Or, turns it off!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
mrgoodstuff
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So Alpha's always "drain" them of ego and esteem? They never feel "filled" by it? Expanded, like it's lifted them?Guys with the name of Chad do not get women
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He means if its a woman who got outgamed
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This makes sense! IT is a matter of finding that balance between focusing on your looks (feminine) versus still presenting the masculine frame. This is why while it is important to get in shape, eat healthy, and take care of your appearance, but don't make it your focus on life.
Probably trips girls up when guys are really fit, then intelligent and well-spoken too. This is the place I hope to get to once I get in shape...