She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....AAAgent said:People will stop pestering you and making you feel uncomfortable if you stop reacting to it. The only reason people take pleasure in leaving you comments you don't like is to get your response which so far has been extremely long. Basically one person writes one line and they're hoping to generate a page long response that will annoy you. If you really want to learn from this site and my fellow male brethren then lurk some more and read until you figure how you can contribute without getting your buttons worked up.
There are a few female members that have good reputations because of their presentation. People think you're a troll because your presentation gives off the troll vibe which i agree with.
Why do you need to prove yourself to everyone here? If they don't believe your a girl then that's their deal. When you get all pissy about it and post 20 pages of responses then.....
That's when we laugh at you.
You do you, let everyone else do what they do and you should be fine but that is easier said than done.
Good luck and i hope you take this to heart.
Yes it is fake hair, but very nice fake hair in person actually. Oh and by the way, I love taking pictures of my face just not putting them on the internet. People are different in the real world.librito said:thats not even your hair,
because Im 120 percent sure that you are
wearing FAKE HAIR.
ANY WOMAN COULD HAVE THAT KIND OF HAIR
AS LONG AS THEY ARE WILLING TO SPEND THE
MONEY ON IT...
I haven known yet an atractive woman who doesnt like to take pictures of her face.....
We have a long history of resident females here being full of sh*t. We have a few remaining that are all right.dalynxx said:I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
There are several agreed upon philosophies here, dalynxx, one of them being that advice on being a DJ coming from a woman is generally flawed (If you want more details on why that is, sift through our DJ bible and previous threads). Like the majority, this is one tenant I agree with.dalynxx said:I will just go back to reading the posts on here and just keep quiet...I think it's easier.
Not at all, it was a comparison. Here's a pic of an old mop I have in my basement:dalynxx said:Really, you refer to my hair as a mop? Is that your version of ****y and funny?
It's quite amazing that you've assumed that I have a desire to attract you solely based on a silly comment I made on your picture. I give you my sincerest apology for leading you to assume I'm interested in you. I'm really not.Good luck with the ladies my friend. You will need it.
That Cinamon chick is a hot little tart. She's a friend of mine on facebook, and she is a freak. And amazing doesn't happen here much, but we are working on it.J. Darko said:I don't believe that there are girls on this forum. If there are any, I bet they are worthless because as an amazing woman you have better things to do than hang around this dump. And yeah, that same rule applies to me. I'm not amazing yet because I spend my time here to.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I think the mop is more attractive.Desdinova said:
Pics or gtfo. ;PfertileTurtle said:That Cinnamon chick is a hot little tart. She's a friend of mine on facebook, and she is a freak. And amazing doesn't happen here much, but we are working on it.
dalynxx said:It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....
Probably made her wet. NO, I KNOW it made her W-E-T. She's being "mistreated" on a "male dominated" blah blah blah. Yeah, she got wet.dalynxx said:It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
J. Darko said:Pics or gtfo. ;P