You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....AAAgent said:People will stop pestering you and making you feel uncomfortable if you stop reacting to it. The only reason people take pleasure in leaving you comments you don't like is to get your response which so far has been extremely long. Basically one person writes one line and they're hoping to generate a page long response that will annoy you. If you really want to learn from this site and my fellow male brethren then lurk some more and read until you figure how you can contribute without getting your buttons worked up.
There are a few female members that have good reputations because of their presentation. People think you're a troll because your presentation gives off the troll vibe which i agree with.
Why do you need to prove yourself to everyone here? If they don't believe your a girl then that's their deal. When you get all pissy about it and post 20 pages of responses then.....
That's when we laugh at you.
You do you, let everyone else do what they do and you should be fine but that is easier said than done.
Good luck and i hope you take this to heart.
Yes it is fake hair, but very nice fake hair in person actually. Oh and by the way, I love taking pictures of my face just not putting them on the internet. People are different in the real world.librito said:thats not even your hair,
because Im 120 percent sure that you are
wearing FAKE HAIR.
ANY WOMAN COULD HAVE THAT KIND OF HAIR
AS LONG AS THEY ARE WILLING TO SPEND THE
MONEY ON IT...
I haven known yet an atractive woman who doesnt like to take pictures of her face.....
We have a long history of resident females here being full of sh*t. We have a few remaining that are all right.dalynxx said:I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
There are several agreed upon philosophies here, dalynxx, one of them being that advice on being a DJ coming from a woman is generally flawed (If you want more details on why that is, sift through our DJ bible and previous threads). Like the majority, this is one tenant I agree with.dalynxx said:I will just go back to reading the posts on here and just keep quiet...I think it's easier.
Not at all, it was a comparison. Here's a pic of an old mop I have in my basement:dalynxx said:Really, you refer to my hair as a mop? Is that your version of ****y and funny?
It's quite amazing that you've assumed that I have a desire to attract you solely based on a silly comment I made on your picture. I give you my sincerest apology for leading you to assume I'm interested in you. I'm really not.Good luck with the ladies my friend. You will need it.
That Cinamon chick is a hot little tart. She's a friend of mine on facebook, and she is a freak. And amazing doesn't happen here much, but we are working on it.J. Darko said:I don't believe that there are girls on this forum. If there are any, I bet they are worthless because as an amazing woman you have better things to do than hang around this dump. And yeah, that same rule applies to me. I'm not amazing yet because I spend my time here to.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I think the mop is more attractive.Desdinova said:
Pics or gtfo. ;PfertileTurtle said:That Cinnamon chick is a hot little tart. She's a friend of mine on facebook, and she is a freak. And amazing doesn't happen here much, but we are working on it.
dalynxx said:It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....
Probably made her wet. NO, I KNOW it made her W-E-T. She's being "mistreated" on a "male dominated" blah blah blah. Yeah, she got wet.dalynxx said:It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
J. Darko said:Pics or gtfo. ;P