"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
They think I'm a troll....
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
because Im 120 percent sure that you are
wearing FAKE HAIR.
ANY WOMAN COULD HAVE THAT KIND OF HAIR
AS LONG AS THEY ARE WILLING TO SPEND THE
MONEY ON IT...
I haven known yet an atractive woman who doesnt like to take pictures of her face.....
It's ok, I've already decided to ignore. It's just have never been treated like this before on an online forum, male dominated or otherwise. I just don't know why some of you all are so mean for no reason but to get a rise out of me. Oh well....AAAgent said:
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There are several agreed upon philosophies here, dalynxx, one of them being that advice on being a DJ coming from a woman is generally flawed (If you want more details on why that is, sift through our DJ bible and previous threads). Like the majority, this is one tenant I agree with.dalynxx said:
Further, since the general idea of this forum is to help men, and you're not a man, then that pretty much leaves you with no good reason to be participating here. If i were to just be outright rude about it, I'd say you're simply "lost" to even BE on this forum.
Considering this, I think your intended path is not only easier, it's appropriate and reasonable as well.
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Desdinova
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Not at all, it was a comparison. Here's a pic of an old mop I have in my basement:dalynxx said:
http://i75.photobucket.com/albums/i306/Desdinovastar/mop.jpg
Both pics are equally appealing.
It's quite amazing that you've assumed that I have a desire to attract you solely based on a silly comment I made on your picture. I give you my sincerest apology for leading you to assume I'm interested in you. I'm really not.
fertileTurtle
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That Cinamon chick is a hot little tart. She's a friend of mine on facebook, and she is a freak. And amazing doesn't happen here much, but we are working on it.J. Darko said:
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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And every one knows, pretty girls have their photos taken, often. Not from behind - whats your deal?
Or are you, in fact a troll?
+1 for the mop.
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dalynxx said:
The ignore function is for sissies, women and manginas. Sooo I guess you can use it but really, are you so weak you have to? If you try (or go back to) LoveShack you'll find that sort of thing more common and no one would think less of you there for using it.
Not that I'm asking you to go, but don't be a drama queen. Either suck it up and read what people post or go.
BTW, the mod from LoveShack is named Tony, and he's a cunt.
fertileTurtle
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Probably made her wet. NO, I KNOW it made her W-E-T. She's being "mistreated" on a "male dominated" blah blah blah. Yeah, she got wet.dalynxx said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
fertileTurtle
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J. Darko said:
http://s935.photobucket.com/albums/ad191/reinald123/?action=view¤t=dsc32.jpg
The cute little slut on the left with the tits heaving.
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