"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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they just dont smile

meettheparents

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Well I notice alot that when I walk past a girl alot of them dont smile. Like someone here said stare at there eyes untill they meet up with your. so yeah I do that but some wont look at me back. I know they see me but they act like they dont.

so why do girls do that for? And what would you think if girls did that to you?

Oh and just to let you know some do smile back. :)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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MidnightResistance

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often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
 

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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
Right on. If you are relatively attractive, they will always wait for you to smile first, then they will respond. I have this problem too, much more in the past; a lot of times they will smile first after a stare and when they realize I'm not about to smile; maybe as a reaction or to not seem cold.

So start smiling first, and they will follow.
 

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You know I've had this same thing happen to me before. If I make eye contact (with no smile) with a girl one of two things happens: either she doesn't look my way or she stares blankly into my eyes.

I get much more warm reception by smiling first. Not a big cheeky grin, a sly smile.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Do what TylerDurden does and only PU 9&10's, they know how to deal with you and will play along.

Most chics never get hit on so they freeze up and prefer not to get involved, go for the 10s and let me know what happens.

TD says its actually easier to PU a 10 because all you have to do is act normal around them and they think you're cool. All the other guys act real wierd around 10s so you are the exception.
 
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