"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Well I notice alot that when I walk past a girl alot of them dont smile. Like someone here said stare at there eyes untill they meet up with your. so yeah I do that but some wont look at me back. I know they see me but they act like they dont.

so why do girls do that for? And what would you think if girls did that to you?

Oh and just to let you know some do smile back. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
 
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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
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Right on. If you are relatively attractive, they will always wait for you to smile first, then they will respond. I have this problem too, much more in the past; a lot of times they will smile first after a stare and when they realize I'm not about to smile; maybe as a reaction or to not seem cold.

So start smiling first, and they will follow.
 
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You know I've had this same thing happen to me before. If I make eye contact (with no smile) with a girl one of two things happens: either she doesn't look my way or she stares blankly into my eyes.

I get much more warm reception by smiling first. Not a big cheeky grin, a sly smile.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do what TylerDurden does and only PU 9&10's, they know how to deal with you and will play along.

Most chics never get hit on so they freeze up and prefer not to get involved, go for the 10s and let me know what happens.

TD says its actually easier to PU a 10 because all you have to do is act normal around them and they think you're cool. All the other guys act real wierd around 10s so you are the exception.
 
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