"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well I notice alot that when I walk past a girl alot of them dont smile. Like someone here said stare at there eyes untill they meet up with your. so yeah I do that but some wont look at me back. I know they see me but they act like they dont.

so why do girls do that for? And what would you think if girls did that to you?

Oh and just to let you know some do smile back. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
 
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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
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Right on. If you are relatively attractive, they will always wait for you to smile first, then they will respond. I have this problem too, much more in the past; a lot of times they will smile first after a stare and when they realize I'm not about to smile; maybe as a reaction or to not seem cold.

So start smiling first, and they will follow.
 
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You know I've had this same thing happen to me before. If I make eye contact (with no smile) with a girl one of two things happens: either she doesn't look my way or she stares blankly into my eyes.

I get much more warm reception by smiling first. Not a big cheeky grin, a sly smile.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Do what TylerDurden does and only PU 9&10's, they know how to deal with you and will play along.

Most chics never get hit on so they freeze up and prefer not to get involved, go for the 10s and let me know what happens.

TD says its actually easier to PU a 10 because all you have to do is act normal around them and they think you're cool. All the other guys act real wierd around 10s so you are the exception.
 
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