"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Well I notice alot that when I walk past a girl alot of them dont smile. Like someone here said stare at there eyes untill they meet up with your. so yeah I do that but some wont look at me back. I know they see me but they act like they dont.

so why do girls do that for? And what would you think if girls did that to you?

Oh and just to let you know some do smile back. :)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
 
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Originally posted by MidnightResistance
often it's because they're shy.

I've come onto a chick in a bar and they've acted real cold on me.
It's not because they don't like me...or wouldn't want me to bang their brains out. It's because they're not hugely confident, or because they're not used to good looking guys hitting on them.
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Right on. If you are relatively attractive, they will always wait for you to smile first, then they will respond. I have this problem too, much more in the past; a lot of times they will smile first after a stare and when they realize I'm not about to smile; maybe as a reaction or to not seem cold.

So start smiling first, and they will follow.
 
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You know I've had this same thing happen to me before. If I make eye contact (with no smile) with a girl one of two things happens: either she doesn't look my way or she stares blankly into my eyes.

I get much more warm reception by smiling first. Not a big cheeky grin, a sly smile.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Do what TylerDurden does and only PU 9&10's, they know how to deal with you and will play along.

Most chics never get hit on so they freeze up and prefer not to get involved, go for the 10s and let me know what happens.

TD says its actually easier to PU a 10 because all you have to do is act normal around them and they think you're cool. All the other guys act real wierd around 10s so you are the exception.
 
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