"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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They are friends who do i ask out first?

dudeman99

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So theirs two chicks who i want to get with. They seem to be cool with each other i don't know how close they are.

How do i figure out who to ask out 1st? Is it ok to ask em both out a couple days apart??

If one says no would she talk to the other?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Chickfight

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It's very likely the other one will find out about it, whether she said no or yes. So I'd ask the one that's most likely to say yes.
 

dudeman99

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Damn none of them showed up to club 2day.

Now I got to try using facebook.

I guess I'll try teasing a girl and see if I can get her to come out. If not then I'll try the other 1 a few days later.
 

dudeman99

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LOl sorry i meant a college activity culb not a dance club. The chicks are members there. I only run into them at club meetings. I think that's also when they see each other.

Last week I was talking to both for about 15 min after the meeting ended.
 

backbreaker

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I had this happen to me a few years ago, I was gaming a girl, that was quite cute. Then she introduced me, that's where she ****ed up, with a friend of hers, who was just as cute. Both made it known on so many terms that they were interested. However, the newer friend, was a little more brazen, and took matters into her own hands, whereas the other one was on reserve, and had a guy in the background that she was on again off again, I like you and I still like him sorta thing, the new girl took me to the movies and blew me in the car, that pretty much sealed the deal.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dudeman99

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Great story breaker though I dont think I have them fighting to see who's going to give me a bj.

I sent one a message on fb "(name)..how am I supposed to be mean to you when you don't come to club?"

Then she sent me one "(name)..how am i supposed to come to club when i have chem lab?

Seems like i wont be running into her unless i try to get her to meet up. Sucks that I can't do it in person.

I haven't sent her a reply yet, I haven't thought of what to say next.
 
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