"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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They are friends who do i ask out first?

dudeman99

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So theirs two chicks who i want to get with. They seem to be cool with each other i don't know how close they are.

How do i figure out who to ask out 1st? Is it ok to ask em both out a couple days apart??

If one says no would she talk to the other?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Chickfight

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It's very likely the other one will find out about it, whether she said no or yes. So I'd ask the one that's most likely to say yes.
 

dudeman99

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Damn none of them showed up to club 2day.

Now I got to try using facebook.

I guess I'll try teasing a girl and see if I can get her to come out. If not then I'll try the other 1 a few days later.
 

dudeman99

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LOl sorry i meant a college activity culb not a dance club. The chicks are members there. I only run into them at club meetings. I think that's also when they see each other.

Last week I was talking to both for about 15 min after the meeting ended.
 

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I had this happen to me a few years ago, I was gaming a girl, that was quite cute. Then she introduced me, that's where she ****ed up, with a friend of hers, who was just as cute. Both made it known on so many terms that they were interested. However, the newer friend, was a little more brazen, and took matters into her own hands, whereas the other one was on reserve, and had a guy in the background that she was on again off again, I like you and I still like him sorta thing, the new girl took me to the movies and blew me in the car, that pretty much sealed the deal.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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dudeman99

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Great story breaker though I dont think I have them fighting to see who's going to give me a bj.

I sent one a message on fb "(name)..how am I supposed to be mean to you when you don't come to club?"

Then she sent me one "(name)..how am i supposed to come to club when i have chem lab?

Seems like i wont be running into her unless i try to get her to meet up. Sucks that I can't do it in person.

I haven't sent her a reply yet, I haven't thought of what to say next.
 
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