"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They are friends who do i ask out first?

dudeman99

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So theirs two chicks who i want to get with. They seem to be cool with each other i don't know how close they are.

How do i figure out who to ask out 1st? Is it ok to ask em both out a couple days apart??

If one says no would she talk to the other?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Chickfight

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It's very likely the other one will find out about it, whether she said no or yes. So I'd ask the one that's most likely to say yes.
 

dudeman99

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Damn none of them showed up to club 2day.

Now I got to try using facebook.

I guess I'll try teasing a girl and see if I can get her to come out. If not then I'll try the other 1 a few days later.
 

dudeman99

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LOl sorry i meant a college activity culb not a dance club. The chicks are members there. I only run into them at club meetings. I think that's also when they see each other.

Last week I was talking to both for about 15 min after the meeting ended.
 

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I had this happen to me a few years ago, I was gaming a girl, that was quite cute. Then she introduced me, that's where she ****ed up, with a friend of hers, who was just as cute. Both made it known on so many terms that they were interested. However, the newer friend, was a little more brazen, and took matters into her own hands, whereas the other one was on reserve, and had a guy in the background that she was on again off again, I like you and I still like him sorta thing, the new girl took me to the movies and blew me in the car, that pretty much sealed the deal.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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dudeman99

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Great story breaker though I dont think I have them fighting to see who's going to give me a bj.

I sent one a message on fb "(name)..how am I supposed to be mean to you when you don't come to club?"

Then she sent me one "(name)..how am i supposed to come to club when i have chem lab?

Seems like i wont be running into her unless i try to get her to meet up. Sucks that I can't do it in person.

I haven't sent her a reply yet, I haven't thought of what to say next.
 
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