"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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There is No Magic Bullet

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"Meeting women is no different; it takes work, dedication, and patience to get results." - Nicholas Hill, DJ Bootcamp

Don't be discouraged by your failures. Failure is the building block of success. How will you know how to do things right if you don't know what's wrong? “I have not failed. I've just found 10,000 ways that won't work.” —Thomas Edison. If you aren't where you want to be, there is nothing wrong with you, you are just doing something wrong. Adjust and keep it moving.

The trick to increasing your success rate with anything in life is learning from your failures. "All my losses were lessons" - Nolanberollin, No Aim. If you aren't learning from your failures and being mindful, well...

"Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results." - Albert Einstein

Be great, gentlemen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm almost glad there isn't a magic bullet, because it would probably be something stupid that I wouldn't want to do.
 

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I'm almost glad there isn't a magic bullet, because it would probably be something stupid that I wouldn't want to do.
Like peacocking? Haha Plus, if there was a magic bullet, no one would build character.
 

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Like peacocking? Haha Plus, if there was a magic bullet, no one would build character.
Lol, peacocking woud be easy. I was thinking more in terms of acting like a retarded fvck boy (Owen from RSD says he can't pull without acting like that). But what feels stupid for one person might not feel as stupid for the next, or vice versa.

As for character, character is great to have for yourself, but I'm not sure how much of an attraction factor it is. I think it definitely can be, only for certain women though. I would think character comes in more during the filtering stage.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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There is a magic bullet. It's called always be self improving. It's just too much work and not always easy so those who dont get women continue to struggle. The lazy will continue to say the game is too hard. The other 10% of us will continue to spin 3+ plates rather easily.
 

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@Glassguy Agreed, but for the sake of keeping the post clear for others: There's no shortcuts is what I meant by there is no magic bullet. That's how magic bullet is typically defined.

@zekko having character isn't for women's benefit or for a man's advantage with getting women. I only mention it because building character teaches you that you know how and can deal with difficult situations in the future. Teaches you how to figure things out. That's fundamental to being a better person. That's all.
 

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Yeah, I tried to find one. I love shortcuts. No shortcuts here guys.
 

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If there was a shortcut or magic bullet... Beta orbiters would find out, and I would actually have some competition.
 

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All that sounds like Anthony Robbin's Personal Power. All that never did anything for me 22 years ago, but today I can absorb it duly and allow it to change me and for me to take control of my mind. It's hard to utilize self-help when you're young and don't even know who you are struggling in a fvcked up world. Now that I have not much worries I can take in all masterful advice and have it consume me and put it to work. It's hard to put it to use though as second nature, you gotta constantly keep thinking about it which is work, but if you wanna get ahead...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I was thinking more in terms of acting like a retarded fvck boy (Owen from RSD says he can't pull without acting like that).
I'm sure he has said that, but I doubt it's actually true. Maybe he had to a few years ago, but now I'm pretty sure he knows he isn't limited to that. Also, they often talk in very metaphorical ways, much of what the RSD guys says shouldn't be taken literally.
 

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> "Meeting women is no different; it takes work, dedication, and patience to get results." - Nicholas Hill, DJ Bootcamp

Good quote, but I should clarify that it was bondjamesbond who came up with it in this thread: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/laziness-masturbation.16192/

Where exactly is this "DJ Boot Camp" document? The only copies I can find anywhere is the one I authored on my computer and one you can apparently buy on the Internet!
 

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> "Meeting women is no different; it takes work, dedication, and patience to get results." - Nicholas Hill, DJ Bootcamp

Good quote, but I should clarify that it was bondjamesbond who came up with it in this thread: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/laziness-masturbation.16192/

Where exactly is this "DJ Boot Camp" document? The only copies I can find anywhere is the one I authored on my computer and one you can apparently buy on the Internet!
can I have a copy? DJ bootcamp?
Sorry, I can't afford to pay anything. Probably shouldn't have asked just trying to get free info, I'm guilty asf.
 
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Fantastic
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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