1. Hot turbo sluts: They've slept with as many men as their age (usually these girls are like 21-22). They see sex like men do and do not get emotionally attached even after banging it out almost every day for a couple months. Lots of these girls also partially fit into category 2.
2. Damaged hot chicks: These girls are sometimes bisexual and often have some sort of emotional disorder (depression, bipolar, BPD, HPD, etc). They've usually only slept with under 10 guys and they really like relationships. They get emotionally attached like normal girls. However, their psychological conditions make them insufferable.
3. Unattractive stable girls: I can get along with some of these girls amazingly yet I am simply unattracted to them physically. I'll have sex with them when I'm drunk sometimes. This is the vast majority of girls I can get and most of the time I get them when I'm just going about my day-to-day business. I typically avoid having sex with them. I've never had a relationship with one of these girls because I don't see the point if I'm not physically attracted to them.
The turbo sluts and damaged hot chicks are so far beyond the unattractive stable girls in terms of looks (they're usually 7's or 8's whereas the unattractive stable girls are usually 5's and below). When things were going well this spring, I was consistently banging 2 hot turbo sluts for a few weeks. I dumped the second girl out of those two after realizing that I don't want to have anything to do with the life in the fast lane party crew anymore.
I'm sick of all of these chicks. The first two types I have to troll through huge groups of people via partying (I'm actually an introvert; this lifestyle does not suit me, besides I'm almost 25) and it just so happens that the hot chicks that have sex with me are very damaged and/or slutty. I see plenty of hot chicks that don't appear slutty or damaged at all, but they are almost never interested in me. The guys that get these stable hot chicks are often no different from me in terms of game, they do the same things I do with all girls. They're usually just a bit better looking than I am.
I'm not looking to land a stable girlfriend that's a dime. At least a stable 6.5 would be nice, but time and time again they reject me. I'm sociable, dress well, and not all that wealthy because I'm a graduate student. I could definitely use more muscle mass, but I'm naturally thin.
Has anybody run into this problem? Did you ever end up alleviating it? What did you do? Is it the pool that I fish out of fundamentally attracting damaged people?
I don't want to have one night stands anymore, really. I mean, I'll take them when I can get them, but I'm no longer interested in going out to a bar and spending $20 to go home either empty handed or gain something meaningless. The girls I can get to have one night stands with me are either unattractive turbo sluts or hot turbo sluts (mostly the former), neither of which I want anything to do with. I've fucked 7 girls in the last year and gotten physical outside of sex with many more and I'm just fucking sick of it. The few short term relationships that have been sparked have been mostly meaningless and just caused a lot of heartbreak in the end.
2. Damaged hot chicks: These girls are sometimes bisexual and often have some sort of emotional disorder (depression, bipolar, BPD, HPD, etc). They've usually only slept with under 10 guys and they really like relationships. They get emotionally attached like normal girls. However, their psychological conditions make them insufferable.
3. Unattractive stable girls: I can get along with some of these girls amazingly yet I am simply unattracted to them physically. I'll have sex with them when I'm drunk sometimes. This is the vast majority of girls I can get and most of the time I get them when I'm just going about my day-to-day business. I typically avoid having sex with them. I've never had a relationship with one of these girls because I don't see the point if I'm not physically attracted to them.
The turbo sluts and damaged hot chicks are so far beyond the unattractive stable girls in terms of looks (they're usually 7's or 8's whereas the unattractive stable girls are usually 5's and below). When things were going well this spring, I was consistently banging 2 hot turbo sluts for a few weeks. I dumped the second girl out of those two after realizing that I don't want to have anything to do with the life in the fast lane party crew anymore.
I'm sick of all of these chicks. The first two types I have to troll through huge groups of people via partying (I'm actually an introvert; this lifestyle does not suit me, besides I'm almost 25) and it just so happens that the hot chicks that have sex with me are very damaged and/or slutty. I see plenty of hot chicks that don't appear slutty or damaged at all, but they are almost never interested in me. The guys that get these stable hot chicks are often no different from me in terms of game, they do the same things I do with all girls. They're usually just a bit better looking than I am.
I'm not looking to land a stable girlfriend that's a dime. At least a stable 6.5 would be nice, but time and time again they reject me. I'm sociable, dress well, and not all that wealthy because I'm a graduate student. I could definitely use more muscle mass, but I'm naturally thin.
Has anybody run into this problem? Did you ever end up alleviating it? What did you do? Is it the pool that I fish out of fundamentally attracting damaged people?
I don't want to have one night stands anymore, really. I mean, I'll take them when I can get them, but I'm no longer interested in going out to a bar and spending $20 to go home either empty handed or gain something meaningless. The girls I can get to have one night stands with me are either unattractive turbo sluts or hot turbo sluts (mostly the former), neither of which I want anything to do with. I've fucked 7 girls in the last year and gotten physical outside of sex with many more and I'm just fucking sick of it. The few short term relationships that have been sparked have been mostly meaningless and just caused a lot of heartbreak in the end.
