"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The world is going to end.

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Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years.

I believe this wholeheartedly.

I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life. But I never had a female love me and I loved her. I think this is a BIG part of being a man. Having a woman. A woman doesn't complete a man, but having a female love you is a GREAT feeling. Sadly, I didn't even have high school "love".

Anyway, after hearing about another earthquake and tsunami...my beliefs on the end of this world has only been made stronger.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Man, you are WEIRD.

P.S....every generation in the history of man believes that the world is gonna end on their watch. As if our generation is the first to experience bad things. Our grandparents did, after all, survive the world shooting the ish out of each other, a great depression, and numerous political assassinations.

Calm down, little buddy.
 

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Iceberg said:
Man, you are WEIRD.

P.S....every generation in the history of man believes that the world is gonna end on their watch. As if our generation is the first to experience bad things. Our grandparents did, after all, survive the world shooting the ish out of each other, a great depression, and numerous political assassinations.

Calm down, little buddy.

I'm sensitve to these types of things. I predicted a lot of stuff in my life. Not like psychic predictions, but really strong feelings that something was going to happen.
 

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I'm sensitve to these types of things. I predicted a lot of stuff in my life. Not like psychic predictions, but really strong feelings that something was going to happen.
So you're one of those people who expects the worst so that when something bad does happen, you can tell everyone, "I told you so?"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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AlmostThere! said:
I'm sensitve to these types of things. I predicted a lot of stuff in my life. Not like psychic predictions, but really strong feelings that something was going to happen.
You're sensitive to everything.
 

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Who cares? If the world ended tomorrow I'd still be able to game girls in the afterlife. This place is a small piece of existence and being hung up on it doesn't do anything positive so whining won't do you any good when push comes to shove. Deal with it.
 

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The world we know ends every time the second hand ticks.

TC
 

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you don't need to do anything before you die
my fear is not that I might die without having experienced certain things, but it is reaching an age where it is too late and feeling regret. regret is what you should fear, death is not important, when you die you die. you won't miss anything because you cease to exist, or if you are a believer you consider that if you die there is a second life. either way it is illogical to fear death
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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OFWHAP said:
So you're one of those people who expects the worst so that when something bad does happen, you can tell everyone, "I told you so?"
I sense good stuff too.

It's hard to explain...but you know in Home Alone they had a nagging feeling they forgot something. Or you leave the house and have that feeling you left the stove on? Imagine that constant nagging at your brain before something happens. That's how I feel concerning planet earth. Hopefully I'm wrong and I die a ripe old age.
 

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Man, you are too worry. When girl comes, it comes. no end of the world.
 

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War Against Betaism said:
2012 is as real as Y2K
Less real than Y2K. At least with Y2K there really was potential for some computer programs to have trouble, 2012 doomsday theories are based on absolutely nothing at all.

The world will not end, planet Earth will not cease to be within our lifetimes. People forget how small we are in the big universe picture, we aren't that important, and shouldn't expect huge changes like that to happen in our lifetime.
 

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AlmostThere said:
Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years.

I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life. But I never had a female love me and I loved her. I think this is a BIG part of being a man. Having a woman. A woman doesn't complete a man, but having a female love you is a GREAT feeling. Sadly, I didn't even have high school "love".
You problems with women are so evident it's not funny. You keep coming back here starting thread after thread of why you need a women, how come a women doesn't like you, why you can't talk, relate and have sex with a women.

Then when you are given good solid advice on what to do in order to achieve success with women, you either come back and argue with the guys who know what they are talking about and have slept with alot of girls, or you agree to make changes but then realize it takes alot of work and effort that you don't want to do.

We can't give a quick fix, get rich type of scheme to understand, relate and have sex with women. There are naturals who can do it, but for the rest it takes hard work, time, energy. The only quick fix to your problem with women is a prostitute, and that's not even a fix, that is just a momentary high.

LISTEN and APPLY what is told to you. If want to ARGUE to make yourself feel better, more power to you, but it won't get you the result you want.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonJuan11 said:
You problems with women are so evident it's not funny. You keep coming back here starting thread after thread of why you need a women, how come a women doesn't like you, why you can't talk, relate and have sex with a women.

Then when you are given good solid advice on what to do in order to achieve success with women, you either come back and argue with the guys who know what they are talking about and have slept with alot of girls, or you agree to make changes but then realize it takes alot of work and effort that you don't want to do.

We can't give a quick fix, get rich type of scheme to understand, relate and have sex with women. There are naturals who can do it, but for the rest it takes hard work, time, energy. The only quick fix to your problem with women is a prostitute, and that's not even a fix, that is just a momentary high.

LISTEN and APPLY what is told to you. If want to ARGUE to make yourself feel better, more power to you, but it won't get you the result you want.
Nail. Head.
 

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Dont worry if you've seen the film 2012
everything is allllright the chinese are going to build massive ships and we can live on them

or if you havent seen it
GO OUT AND WARN EVERY1 about the end of the world
 

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DonJuan11 said:
You problems with women are so evident it's not funny. You keep coming back here starting thread after thread of why you need a women, how come a women doesn't like you, why you can't talk, relate and have sex with a women.

Then when you are given good solid advice on what to do in order to achieve success with women, you either come back and argue with the guys who know what they are talking about and have slept with alot of girls, or you agree to make changes but then realize it takes alot of work and effort that you don't want to do.

We can't give a quick fix, get rich type of scheme to understand, relate and have sex with women. There are naturals who can do it, but for the rest it takes hard work, time, energy. The only quick fix to your problem with women is a prostitute, and that's not even a fix, that is just a momentary high.

LISTEN and APPLY what is told to you. If want to ARGUE to make yourself feel better, more power to you, but it won't get you the result you want.
Okaaayyy....
 

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Understand that tomorrow is not promised to anybody. Live your life to the fullest because you only live once. Enjoy your life. Nobody knows when the world will end.

Case closed. Go have some fun.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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