You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Lol oh great another one of these people...people like this need to stop being so damn ignorant and just realize that the whole 2012 theory is no more real than Y2K. All it is is just a "theory" for a bunch of easily tricked people to believe that the world is going to end.AlmostThere! said:Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years.
I believe this wholeheartedly.
I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life. But I never had a female love me and I loved her. I think this is a BIG part of being a man. Having a woman. A woman doesn't complete a man, but having a female love you is a GREAT feeling. Sadly, I didn't even have high school "love".
Anyway, after hearing about another earthquake and tsunami...my beliefs on the end of this world has only been made stronger.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Alle_Gory said:You know, that was just a movie right?
The mayan calendar doesn't actually end on 2012. It's just the beginning of a new calendar on that date.
You know, if you'd be more open to ideas about improving your life and with women as you are with dumb sh*t like this you'd be a lot better off.
Don't listen to the smart people here, turn on that boob tube and listen to the loudest idiot. Then you can come here and complain to people who are actually trying to help you.
Atta boy. Keep it up sport.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Y2K was a real problem that many people spent many hours fixing.eaglez1177 said:Lol oh great another one of these people...people like this need to stop being so damn ignorant and just realize that the whole 2012 theory is no more real than Y2K. All it is is just a "theory" for a bunch of easily tricked people to believe that the world is going to end.
mrRuckus said:Y2K was a real problem that many people spent many hours fixing.
No one told the media to blow it out of proportion.
2012 is just made up.
AlmostThere! said:Or at least the way of life will be changed dramatically. It may be 2012, but definitely within the next 10 years.
I believe this wholeheartedly.
I never told anyone this, but this is the reason why I feel like I need to find a relationship now. I've reached many of my goals in life. But I never had a female love me and I loved her. I think this is a BIG part of being a man. Having a woman. A woman doesn't complete a man, but having a female love you is a GREAT feeling. Sadly, I didn't even have high school "love".
Anyway, after hearing about another earthquake and tsunami...my beliefs on the end of this world has only been made stronger.
Let me get this straight... in a forum that is just to "Get chicks" or attract whatever, you're pulling the "dependency on women" thing?Pimp-sicle said:Get over your dependency on women for your happiness. You can keep saying that a "woman doesn't complete a man" but those are words you've memorized from reading here; not your own thoughts. If you keep depending on women...
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The other guy is right. Too many of these guys' confidence levels rise and fall because of women. First thing he needs to do is develop a life that doesn't crumble every time a woman leaves his life.GetOveIT said:Let me get this straight... in a forum that is just to "Get chicks" or attract whatever, you're pulling the "dependency on women" thing?
Its like an alcoholic advertising AA with one bottle of whiskey in the pocket it just too ironic... better to say dont get hung up on a woman that doesnt like you, just move on, and whatever you do dont fall in love too soon or too fast.
Your country's current state of affairs is the work of former Presidential Disgrace George W. Bush. Obama's not helping much, but he didn't make things the way they are.5string said:I'd worry about Obama before I'd be concerned about an earthquake or a tsunami.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Before you flame me further, let me say that I absolutely agree with you about Bush. Feel better now? By the way, what time does Glenn Beck come on so I can check him out? Go get yourself a double tall non-fat latte and have a good day.Alle_Gory said:Your country's current state of affairs is the work of former Presidential Disgrace George W. Bush. Obama's not helping much, but he didn't make things the way they are.
Go back to your bomb shelter. I hear Glenn Beck is on.
Because he's an elitist!!!!!5string said:Before you flame me further, let me say that I absolutely agree with you about Bush. Feel better now? By the way, what time does Glenn Beck come on so I can check him out? Go get yourself a double tall non-fat latte and have a good day.
Stop being a tool.5string said:Go get yourself a double tall non-fat latte and have a good day.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.