Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Interesting chartWarrior74 said:
see what i gather from that chart is that the most single women that the women there are more out of touch with reality than the rest of the US I don't gather that it's necessairly better to be in say chicago or NY trying to game women. i gather that this is where the women feminists/ unrealistic women are out of controlWarrior74 said:
exactlyVisited Boston recently...downtown had good spots with a fair number of cuties from the local colleges...but entitled as hell and super arrogant....lots of 6s thinking they were 9s type of thing...I would never have thought the town would have such a favorable female:male ratio....
on a serous note LA is not as bad as the vid....you're not going to snag girls from Hyde Lounge but if you can project value and have decent looks/fit you'll snag biyaches
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
There are many ways to interpret that chart. All it really says is "more single women". This doesn't necessarily mean young attractive 18-30 year old women. It includes crazy cat ladies in their 40's and 50's plus divorced women.backbreaker said:see what i gather from that chart is that the most single women that the women there are more out of touch with reality than the rest of the US I don't gather that it's necessairly better to be in say chicago or NY trying to game women. i gather that this is where the women feminists/ unrealistic women are out of control
exactly
It really doesn't, that chart is inaccurate. Boston is at best half and half every time you go out, and many of the women really aren't terribly good looking on most nights at many venues. Even the theater district which is a bit more upscale usually has ghetto women/men. However, its more of a new england thing to have unapproachable groups. People here are very involved into their cliques, so its difficult to get them to break out of that. They put up a wall, and generally aren't friendly.Burroughs said:Interesting chart
Visited Boston recently...downtown had good spots with a fair number of cuties from the local colleges...but entitled as hell and super arrogant....lots of 6s thinking they were 9s type of thing...I would never have thought the town would have such a favorable female:male ratio....
on a serous note LA is not as bad as the vid....you're not going to snag girls from Hyde Lounge but if you can project value and have decent looks/fit you'll snag biyaches
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.