"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The way unavailable women are with me

051AV

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I find it amusing how women that are married or are in a relationship act with me. The reason why I made this post I ran into my neighbour's girl friend they are pretty much common law she's a couple years older than me. I can barely get any words out her I get a hi, the other times she's quiet with me, cat got your tongue? I know she's chatty she talks to other guys just fine. When I'm visiting her BF all she does is stares when I'm around talking with her BF, its kind of odd. You can at least talk, I'm not really interested in you.

A woman I work with she's nearing 50, married has grown children, she gets giggly when I'm with her alone, most of the time she can't give me eye contact she looks down and she's smiling, always smiling around me. Her and I have a strange friendship I think she realizes I understand her, she feels comfortable when I'm around. When she's in a foul mood I'm the one that is the guy that can get her to talk.

I really don't know what goes through a woman's mind who is already attached to another man. I wouldn't ever do anything to ruin their relationship we are strictly friends and no more than that.

The women that are taken do the same as available women all I get is fvcking giggles and shyness WTF its frustrating at times I just want to be friendly its in my nature.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What makes you think they are "unavailable"? Women cheat just like men do.
 

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What makes you think they are "unavailable"? Women cheat just like men do.
They cheat MORE than men do. Getting a chick to cheat on her man if she has been in a relationship with him for more than 5 years is like getting a duck to eat bread.

Men typically get complacent, and they let the interest level of the chicks they are in LTR with drop. He stops giving her attention, especially if they live together. Give a married chick some attention, make her feel like a girl, and if you know how to seduce chicks it's easy... much easier than single chicks.

Having said that... don't do it. It's not worth the sh!t pile of drama if she falls in love with you. And if you are stupid enough to think you really want her and want to steal her away, you are one dumb motherfvcker because another dude will come along and you will be the one that gets cheated on.
 

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What makes you think they are "unavailable"? Women cheat just like men do.
They can cheat with somebody else I'm friends with the one guy the woman I work with her husband is golly green giant who already is jealous I work with his wife.
 

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The wife caught cheating is a careless wife.

I know for a fact that married woman cheat more so then woman in an LTR.

It's just the nature of woman.

Goes in tandem with their shopping habits.

Today it's their all time favourite LV handbags and next thing you know it's Gucci...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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One more thing.... I adore women, I love the emotional butterfly nature of chicks, it's amusing. But what I won't do is go dancing off a cliff in an emotional state of bliss chasing after them. Nor will I scream at them because they are acting within their nature... that just gives you a sore throat for no productive purpose.
 
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