"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The way unavailable women are with me

051AV

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I find it amusing how women that are married or are in a relationship act with me. The reason why I made this post I ran into my neighbour's girl friend they are pretty much common law she's a couple years older than me. I can barely get any words out her I get a hi, the other times she's quiet with me, cat got your tongue? I know she's chatty she talks to other guys just fine. When I'm visiting her BF all she does is stares when I'm around talking with her BF, its kind of odd. You can at least talk, I'm not really interested in you.

A woman I work with she's nearing 50, married has grown children, she gets giggly when I'm with her alone, most of the time she can't give me eye contact she looks down and she's smiling, always smiling around me. Her and I have a strange friendship I think she realizes I understand her, she feels comfortable when I'm around. When she's in a foul mood I'm the one that is the guy that can get her to talk.

I really don't know what goes through a woman's mind who is already attached to another man. I wouldn't ever do anything to ruin their relationship we are strictly friends and no more than that.

The women that are taken do the same as available women all I get is fvcking giggles and shyness WTF its frustrating at times I just want to be friendly its in my nature.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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marmel75

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What makes you think they are "unavailable"? Women cheat just like men do.
 

RangerMIke

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What makes you think they are "unavailable"? Women cheat just like men do.
They cheat MORE than men do. Getting a chick to cheat on her man if she has been in a relationship with him for more than 5 years is like getting a duck to eat bread.

Men typically get complacent, and they let the interest level of the chicks they are in LTR with drop. He stops giving her attention, especially if they live together. Give a married chick some attention, make her feel like a girl, and if you know how to seduce chicks it's easy... much easier than single chicks.

Having said that... don't do it. It's not worth the sh!t pile of drama if she falls in love with you. And if you are stupid enough to think you really want her and want to steal her away, you are one dumb motherfvcker because another dude will come along and you will be the one that gets cheated on.
 

051AV

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What makes you think they are "unavailable"? Women cheat just like men do.
They can cheat with somebody else I'm friends with the one guy the woman I work with her husband is golly green giant who already is jealous I work with his wife.
 

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The wife caught cheating is a careless wife.

I know for a fact that married woman cheat more so then woman in an LTR.

It's just the nature of woman.

Goes in tandem with their shopping habits.

Today it's their all time favourite LV handbags and next thing you know it's Gucci...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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One more thing.... I adore women, I love the emotional butterfly nature of chicks, it's amusing. But what I won't do is go dancing off a cliff in an emotional state of bliss chasing after them. Nor will I scream at them because they are acting within their nature... that just gives you a sore throat for no productive purpose.
 
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