“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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But look at the amazing thread it spawned. We all grew from your little experience.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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reset said:
Mr. Me is the future reset. And I don't mean that in a weird way. He's got a good head on his shoulders but is also a sarcastic bastard, like myself.
Sounds kind of science-fictiony to me...not really into that.

You're a sarcastic bastard, reset? Hmmm, wonder how I missed that part of you? You might want to take lessons from NightHawk. Now THERE'S a sarcastic bastard you can sink your teeth into...so to speak. He's almost like the male version of me. Aim for that. Forget INterloper...he's a wussie. You'll draw the wrong women...err I mean chicks if you follow him.
 

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Hombre is obviously an attention seeking house-wife, who's husband is on business trip (somewhere with 'someone') and she's posting here to get back at whatever men have done to her.

:crackup:

Hombre, chill out- don't be so sterotypical of your gender.
 

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But look at the amazing thread it spawned. We all grew from your little experience.
"Grew?" I'm not sure I want to know how, k? Just keep it to yourself there, reset.:crackup:
 
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HOMBRE said:
Sounds kind of science-fictiony to me...not really into that.

You're a sarcastic bastard, reset? Hmmm, wonder how I missed that part of you? You might want to take lessons from NightHawk. Now THERE'S a sarcastic bastard you can sink your teeth into...so to speak. He's almost like the male version of me. Aim for that. Forget INterloper...he's a wussie. You'll draw the wrong women...err I mean chicks if you follow him.

uggghhhh... you suck baby! And I mean that in a bad way.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Rex Man said:
Ok Hombre,

Perhaps you haven't realized this, but a lot of these guys on here are good people that have been hurt or lack confidence with women. Then there are those (men and women) that try to offer advice and a little support. Even though I may be harsh myself sometimes when offering advice; there comes a point where you're just being a condescending(sp?) @ss. Do you really enjoy kicking people while they're down? If so, that's just sad really.
Nope, I would never kick anyone when they're down. None of these men on here sound that down to me though.

I can see that there are good guys on here. I'm not exactly blind to that fact. But hey, thanks for the lecture.
 

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so... a woman involved in a "happy" marriage has just spent the last 5 hours talking to a bunch of guys online. that brings up one question in my mind: don't you have nothing better to do (maybe with your husband?) on a sunday afternoon?
 

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so... a woman involved in a "happy" marriage has just spent the last 5 hours talking to a bunch of guys online. that brings up one question in my mind: don't you have nothing better to do (maybe with your husband?) on a sunday afternoon?
:rockon:

HOMBRE: Just face it! You want the thing (amongst many others) that is lacking in your life- MALE ATTENTION.
 

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michaelhctam said:
:rockon:

HOMBRE: Just face it! You want the thing (amongst many others) that is lacking in your life- MALE ATTENTION.
Yes, and we are giving it to her. That's why she's sticking around.
 

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so... a woman involved in a "happy" marriage has just spent the last 5 hours talking to a bunch of guys online. that brings up one question in my mind: don't you have nothing better to do (maybe with your husband?) on a sunday afternoon?
Hi drak..good question. Well first of all it's not afternoon where I am. Secondly, I've already mentioned that my husband is sitting next to me on the couch and we're watching a movie. I'm not that into this movie though so I'm mostly posting but i'm also talking to him and emailing with my LS buddies. And of course checking out LS.

I can multi-task! Isn't that amazing? Don't forget to read the part about when I also gave my H a BJ.

Can you do more than one thing at a time? Just wondering. Thanks for stopping by!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ya michaelhctam, exactly my thoughts. I just can't see any of the women I know in healthy relationships spending so much time online chatting with a bunch of guys.
 
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HOMBRE said:
Hi drak..good question. Well first of all it's not afternoon where I am. Secondly, I've already mentioned that my husband is sitting next to me on the couch and we're watching a movie. I'm not that into this movie though so I'm mostly posting but i'm also talking to him and emailing with my LS buddies. And of course checking out LS.

I can multi-task! Isn't that amazing? Don't forget to read the part about when I also gave my H a BJ.

Can you do more than one thing at a time? Just wondering. Thanks for stopping by!

LOL my last girlfriend gave me a BJ every night and morning. It doesn't mean she was happy.
 

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HOMBRE said:
Can you do more than one thing at a time? Just wondering. Thanks for stopping by!
I'd rather concentrate on one thing and do it perfectly, than do 3 or 4 more things at a lower quality.

Quality not Quantity.
 

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michaelhctam said:
:rockon:

HOMBRE: Just face it! You want the thing (amongst many others) that is lacking in your life- MALE ATTENTION.
Actually, my husband is really very attentive of me. I don't lack for male attention.

I know this is weird but I'm finding this kind of interesting and entertaining now. I guess it's because the movie is so boring.

I'll get bored with this in time. Don't worry your pretty little head over it, k?
 

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michaelhctam said:
I'd rather concentrate on one thing and do it perfectly, than do 3 or 4 more things at a lower quality.

Quality not Quantity.
Gotcha there, Michael. Thou doth protest too loudly, wouldn't you say?

So why are you here then? Go do the one thing you do perfectly, k?

Oh and don't forget the lube buddy! (wink, wink)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HOMBRE said:
Actually, my husband is really very attentive of me. I don't lack for male attention.

I know this is weird but I'm finding this kind of interesting and entertaining now. I guess it's because the movie is so boring.

I'll get bored with this in time. Don't worry your pretty little head over it, k?

Yeah right, you can't fool us baby. You are not happy.
 

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so you can svck your hubbie off, watch a movie, post on 3 different forums, talk on the phone with your friends and... play guitar heroes with your toes at the same time?

damn, where can i find a woman like you?

look, i obviously didn't go through this entire thread but i get the hang of it. i really don't see what your input can add to our community. maybe it ll be positive, maybe not, i ll give you the benefit of the doubt.

One piece of warning: there are many contradictory currents of thoughts going on at sosuave, everything you will say will be attacked by somebody, especially since you are a woman. If you re gonna get tangled up in a 10 page argument everytime you won't get too far...
 

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HOMBRE said:
Gotcha there, Michael. Thou doth protest too loudly, wouldn't you say?

So why are you here then? Go do the one thing you do perfectly, k?

Oh and don't forget the lube buddy! (wink, wink)
Wow, I have never encountered such awkward use of pseudo-intellectualism, I use large sized words so my message rises above the rest.

I am here to enjoy a well established and well-organised community of fellow men that want to pursue the betterment of their social, economic and health lifestyles. I am here because I belong here, and me and my brothers on this internet forum all have the same goals of life-fufillment, determination and ambition to be the best.

Why don't you go and do 100 things, k? Watch the movie whilst making your hubby a large sandwich and whilst your at it- give him a BJ.

:whistle:
 

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Yeah right, you can't fool us baby. You are not happy.
Hey, if it makes you feel better about your life to say that, I don't mind. I've met a few people on LS in person and they can tell you. Research some of my posts on there. I really don't mind.

What reason would I have to lie to a bunch of strangers? I'm completely being myself and I've been honest about what I've divulged about myself.

Believe it or don't. Fine with me either way.

I love my husband and he loves me. He would never whine like some on here.

He's a good man. A strong man. I hope some of you can get to that place one day yourselves. And I don't mean that way in any sarcastic way...I mean it.
 
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Hey, if it makes you feel better about your life to say that, I don't mind. I've met a few people on LS in person and they can tell you. Research some of my posts on there. I really don't mind.

What reason would I have to lie to a bunch of strangers? I'm completely being myself and I've been honest about what I've divulged about myself.

Believe it or don't. Fine with me either way.

I love my husband and he loves me. He would never whine like some on here.

He's a good man. A strong man. I hope some of you can get to that place one day yourselves. And I don't mean that way in any sarcastic way...I mean it.

Yes, I feel so much better knowing a female on sosuave needs a spanking.

you know you need it, I know you need it and we know you need it.

It's all good baby :)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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