Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The types of things desperate dudes do when they get oneitis

marmel75

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After being rejected repeatedly by a coworker over several months and told the "I have a boyfriend" line, this guy decides to eliminate that particular issue...

Now he is going to jail for the rest of his life over some chick he pedastalized because he didnt realize he had a -10000000% chance of getting with her, thinking if he got rid of the boyfriend then she would date him.

Dont be this dude.
What a loser.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/san-francisco-airport-employee-murders-093203619.html
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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so looks really can tell how dumb they are
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Who Dares Win

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Hard to find such level of betaness, thats basically 99% beta with that 1% of alpha that makes him take matter in his own hands...but in the wrong way for the wrong reasons.
 

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After being rejected repeatedly by a coworker over several months and told the "I have a boyfriend" line, this guy decides to eliminate that particular issue...

Now he is going to jail for the rest of his life over some chick he pedastalized because he didnt realize he had a -10000000% chance of getting with her, thinking if he got rid of the boyfriend then she would date him.

Dont be this dude.
What a loser.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/san-francisco-airport-employee-murders-093203619.html
I think that he could find "true love" at San Quentin. :eek::eek:
 
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