"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The types of things desperate dudes do when they get oneitis

marmel75

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After being rejected repeatedly by a coworker over several months and told the "I have a boyfriend" line, this guy decides to eliminate that particular issue...

Now he is going to jail for the rest of his life over some chick he pedastalized because he didnt realize he had a -10000000% chance of getting with her, thinking if he got rid of the boyfriend then she would date him.

Dont be this dude.
What a loser.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/san-francisco-airport-employee-murders-093203619.html
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alvafe

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so looks really can tell how dumb they are
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Who Dares Win

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Hard to find such level of betaness, thats basically 99% beta with that 1% of alpha that makes him take matter in his own hands...but in the wrong way for the wrong reasons.
 

MatureDJ

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After being rejected repeatedly by a coworker over several months and told the "I have a boyfriend" line, this guy decides to eliminate that particular issue...

Now he is going to jail for the rest of his life over some chick he pedastalized because he didnt realize he had a -10000000% chance of getting with her, thinking if he got rid of the boyfriend then she would date him.

Dont be this dude.
What a loser.

https://www.yahoo.com/news/san-francisco-airport-employee-murders-093203619.html
I think that he could find "true love" at San Quentin. :eek::eek:
 
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