The type of girl you want?

[The Duke]

This post isnt for the masses to debate what the best girl looks like or how she acts. What works for you might not work for me. It's pointless to debate, so please refrain.

This post is to ask the simple question....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?

For me, yes I have a solid girl. She has a great mind, good looks, and is young. We get along very well. She definitely looks up to me.

I wasnt always capable of getting a girl with a solid mind and good looks, but these days my SMV is a lot higher so it makes it easier to get the total package.

 

[Prepostereax]

What you're essentially describing is finding a unicorn
Or levelling up so that a unicorn finds you

Basically this:

http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/antidumpsmachine.pdf

(adapt for this decade and don't pay too much attention to exact numbers and figures)

There is abundance, in which poosy is plentiful enough that you don't really give a sht whether or how long it takes for a plate to break
Abundance is good.

This is not about abundance
This is about poesy that you DO give a sht about
not because she's such an amazing lay (but doesn’t hurt, you will probably have your best non-crazy sex with her. Yes that's quite the disclaimer)
But because she spurs you on in bettering yourself
Supporting your "mission"
Per antidump, her nature will not be apparent until after months of vetting

the one in a million (or even 1/1000) girl.

 

[Cheeky_James]

How did you ride your SMV Duke to get the younger lady? And what’s the age gap.

Serious question.
Edit; how old are you btw . Profile doesn’t say.

 

[Gamisch]

After sleeping with more than 200 and been on perhaps hunderds of dates Ive accepted that basically every woman has some flaws.

I've learned that a loyal woman will also be jealous and a tad insecure. But it still the best way to go...

I need a pretty face, azz ( t1ts dknt matter that much to me) and a feminine character. No need for ambitious career women. I want a woman - woman..

 

[jhonny9546]

I have my own list of what an ideal girl should be like, but I certainly can’t say that every single box gets checked.
We all have to settle for what we can find in a particular place and at a particular point in our lives.
The best available.
But it will never be "the ideal."
It’s just the best you’ve managed to find.

 

[Divorced w 3]

They’re all perfect until you get to know them.

 

[Divorced w 3]

What you're essentially describing is finding a unicorn
Or levelling up so that a unicorn finds you

Basically this:

http://www.djbible.classicalgasemissions.com/antidumpsmachine.pdf

(adapt for this decade and don't pay too much attention to exact numbers and figures)

There is abundance, in which poosy is plentiful enough that you don't really give a sht whether or how long it takes for a plate to break
Abundance is good.

This is not about abundance
This is about poesy that you DO give a sht about
not because she's such an amazing lay (but doesn’t hurt, you will probably have your best non-crazy sex with her. Yes that's quite the disclaimer)
But because she spurs you on in bettering yourself
Supporting your "mission"
Per antidump, her nature will not be apparent until after months of vetting

the one in a million (or even 1/1000) girl.

I had to like this because I love that you quoted Anti-Dump. One of the best posters of all time.

 

[The Duke]

To stay more focused on the topic:

Are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?

How did you ride your SMV Duke to get the younger lady? And what’s the age gap.

Serious question.
Edit; how old are you btw . Profile doesn’t say.

Close to 50, we have about 20 years between us. My looks were the initial attractor. My ability to dance got things going. How I made her feel in my presence sealed the deal(her words, not mine). I didn't care what we ended up being.

 

[Divorced w 3]

How I made her feel in my presence sealed the deal(her words, not mine). I didn't care what we ended up being.

When she says 'you make me feel safe,' you've done your job.

 

[Gamisch]

To stay more focused on the topic:

Are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?



Close to 50, we have about 20 years between us. My looks were the initial attractor. My ability to dance got things going. How I made her feel in my presence sealed the deal(her words, not mine). I didn't care what we ended up being.

My 1000% perfect world- Gamisch- king of the universe- Genghis Khan -preference is with Arabic looking women, big booty curly hair ,petite...

Now im seeing a mixed Indian/ white woman with beautiful eyes and some azz. Beautiful woman but kinda crazy. Really sweet though..but crazy and emotional as feck LOL. She simply refuses to let me go!!

I like Persian type women BUT they're extremely materialistic. Being an afro Latin man thats an uphill battle ...

Generally speaking I tend to be attracted to literally all kinds of women. Blonde ,redhead brunette, Latina, Arabic, black , Asian...

Women are simply the most beautiful thing God created..and as @Divorced w 3 said, they ALWAYS come with some baggage . Always..

One colleague said me his dad told him ; " all women are crazy, so just pick one and ride it out " . Old school bluepill mindset, but I do like that qoute..

Personality is a dangerous one...I've learned that bubbly women always have a dark side to them. They simply know how to sell themselves and leverage their initial attractiveness perfectly. As DW3 said omcd you REALLY get to know them its downhill from there.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@The Duke "....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise?"

Yep. She's not a "unicorn", and I'm not "a Red Pill God"... We're both flesh and blood human beings, who are-at this particular moment in time-compatible with one another

 

[Cheeky_James]

To stay more focused on the topic:

Are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?



Close to 50, we have about 20 years between us. My looks were the initial attractor. My ability to dance got things going. How I made her feel in my presence sealed the deal(her words, not mine). I didn't care what we ended up being.

thanks.

In line with the topic.
-No I am not .

Why not?
-my current face and height I would say.
But also my status and money

And I capable /What’s holding me back?
- my standards are possibly too high
-Father Time mainly.

But I could do with some gym also tbh…looking into that atm.

 

[Cheeky_James]

@The Duke

interesting that you say ‘My looks were the initial attractor’.

very interesting indeed!
you haven’t mentioned your status or money either.
Do you have those also … serious question

 

[zekko]

I wasnt always capable of getting a girl with a solid mind and good looks, but these days my SMV is a lot higher so it makes it easier to get the total package.

Are you looking to trade up?

 

[CornbreadFed]

I learned that my frame is as effective as the French WW2 defense against certain types of women so no I am not. I did have to make some sacrifices, but my frame is and continues to be strong. Men need to realize that some women are for pleasure and others are for who you keep around. Women do the same crap too on us.

 

[UK manc]

There's an interesting website for this...

 

[RangerMIke]

This post isnt for the masses to debate what the best girl looks like or how she acts. What works for you might not work for me. It's pointless to debate, so please refrain.

This post is to ask the simple question....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?

For me, yes I have a solid girl. She has a great mind, good looks, and is young. We get along very well. She definitely looks up to me.

I wasnt always capable of getting a girl with a solid mind and good looks, but these days my SMV is a lot higher so it makes it easier to get the total package.

My standards are fairly modest.

She doesn't have to be knockout gorgeous, but she has to be attractive, care about her looks, and be as committed to fitness and healthy eating that I am. She cannot have any serious chronic illnesses. Again, I am not asking for anything that I already do not also bring to the table.

I don't care is she drinks or smokes pot or takes edibles, as long as she doesn't abuse these. Any other drug use is a clear no-go.

I will not date anyone that is younger than 40, I don't care if she has kids, but I prefer her children are close to the same age as mine (early 20s). I am not interested in helping raise small children anymore (been there; done that). I see men my age with younger women and to me that is just creepy. I am not judging anyone that does this, but these kinds of 'relationships' are just not for me. I'm pushing 60 and by observation with friends of mine that chase much younger women, these situations tend to come with too much drama. But hey, some men like drama, I'm not one of them.

She has to be reasonably financially independent, not need my support or resources. Low debt levels, and generally have her sh1t together.

If she has kids with another man, not a problem as long as the father of her children is a decent fellow, and not some sh1t show. If it's a man I can reasonably get along with this is fine.

The most important thing is that she has to accept me for who I am, since I am doing the same with her, I am not interested in getting into some emotional manipulation where a woman is trying to shape me into something she wants. If I'm lucky, I have about 25 years left on Earth. I do not want to spend what little time I have dysfunctional relationships.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

I actually don't have a specific type I look for on a logical level, it's more of a "I know it when I see it" or "I feel it when I feel it" gut thing. Also I assume we're not talking about casual sex but LTRs so my response will be based on that.

There are certainly some types of women I generally like more than others, eg young women, East Asians, redheads, etc but for me I'm more about avoiding certain qualities and some of my hard no's are women who are fat, have short hair, or lots of tats.

Personality wise is much much more variable. The only qualities I really require from her is she's kind, empathic, agreeable, and has a feminine energy. Anything beyond that is a bonus, but it's hard to identify some of those off the top of my head. In regards to hard no's a few examples would be women with kids, women with guys friends, disagreeable and competitive "career women", and women who post thirst trap pics on her socials.

If there's one area I will compromise most it's looks. I'd be much happier dating a super feminine and warm hearted 22 year girl who's a 6/10 than dating a smoking hot but c*nty woman in her 30s.

If I was at the peak of my potential SMV I probably wouldn't settle for a sub-7 even if she had all the qualities I look for. Then again I do women 8+ tend to be much more miserable to date. In any case if was at my max potential with far more options and leverage I would probably exclusively date very young women who are around an 8.

 

[Cheeky_James]

So what’s the point of this thread @The Duke ?

Is it just a prop for you to do a humble brag that you are currently dating a much younger woman ?

(btw you haven’t mentioned yet ig you possess money and resources as that is obviously a factor)

I would imagine for most of the replies here the reasons they cannot get the woman they want .. Is that they are shooting for a chick out of their league . Simply.

it’ll be a lack of either Looks and Status/Money that is holding them back. Not much else.
as these are the main primary factors of a man’s attractiveness to such women.

else just post photos of the type of woman that appeals. And continue the old HB10 thread.

 

[BadBoy89]

- Age has to get pregnant easily
- No kids
- light skin
- not fat
- this is a weird thing; but I don’t like women from poor countries.
- long hair
- above 5’5
- has to work somewhere
- divorced is ok
- smoking is ok
- drinking is ok
- another weird thing, none of her family members or friends can be gay.
- has to sign pre nup.
- I like accents