"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The type of girl you want?

The Duke

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This post isnt for the masses to debate what the best girl looks like or how she acts. What works for you might not work for me. It's pointless to debate, so please refrain.

This post is to ask the simple question....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?

For me, yes I have a solid girl. She has a great mind, good looks, and is young. We get along very well. She definitely looks up to me.

I wasnt always capable of getting a girl with a solid mind and good looks, but these days my SMV is a lot higher so it makes it easier to get the total package.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Prepostereax

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What you're essentially describing is finding a unicorn
Or levelling up so that a unicorn finds you

Basically this:


(adapt for this decade and don't pay too much attention to exact numbers and figures)

There is abundance, in which poosy is plentiful enough that you don't really give a sht whether or how long it takes for a plate to break
Abundance is good.

This is not about abundance
This is about poesy that you DO give a sht about

not because she's such an amazing lay (but doesn’t hurt, you will probably have your best non-crazy sex with her. Yes that's quite the disclaimer)
But because she spurs you on in bettering yourself
Supporting your "mission"
Per antidump, her nature will not be apparent until after months of vetting

the one in a million (or even 1/1000) girl.
 
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Cheeky_James

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How did you ride your SMV Duke to get the younger lady? And what’s the age gap.

Serious question.
Edit; how old are you btw . Profile doesn’t say.
 

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After sleeping with more than 200 and been on perhaps hunderds of dates Ive accepted that basically every woman has some flaws.

I've learned that a loyal woman will also be jealous and a tad insecure. But it still the best way to go...

I need a pretty face, azz ( t1ts dknt matter that much to me) and a feminine character. No need for ambitious career women. I want a woman - woman..
 

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I have my own list of what an ideal girl should be like, but I certainly can’t say that every single box gets checked.
We all have to settle for what we can find in a particular place and at a particular point in our lives.
The best available.
But it will never be "the ideal."
It’s just the best you’ve managed to find.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What you're essentially describing is finding a unicorn
Or levelling up so that a unicorn finds you

Basically this:


(adapt for this decade and don't pay too much attention to exact numbers and figures)

There is abundance, in which poosy is plentiful enough that you don't really give a sht whether or how long it takes for a plate to break
Abundance is good.

This is not about abundance
This is about poesy that you DO give a sht about

not because she's such an amazing lay (but doesn’t hurt, you will probably have your best non-crazy sex with her. Yes that's quite the disclaimer)
But because she spurs you on in bettering yourself
Supporting your "mission"
Per antidump, her nature will not be apparent until after months of vetting

the one in a million (or even 1/1000) girl.
I had to like this because I love that you quoted Anti-Dump. One of the best posters of all time.
 

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To stay more focused on the topic:

Are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?


How did you ride your SMV Duke to get the younger lady? And what’s the age gap.

Serious question.
Edit; how old are you btw . Profile doesn’t say.
Close to 50, we have about 20 years between us. My looks were the initial attractor. My ability to dance got things going. How I made her feel in my presence sealed the deal(her words, not mine). I didn't care what we ended up being.
 

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To stay more focused on the topic:

Are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise? If you arent, then are you capable of achieving that given time and commitment to pursuing such? Why not? What's holding you back?



Close to 50, we have about 20 years between us. My looks were the initial attractor. My ability to dance got things going. How I made her feel in my presence sealed the deal(her words, not mine). I didn't care what we ended up being.
My 1000% perfect world- Gamisch- king of the universe- Genghis Khan -preference is with Arabic looking women, big booty curly hair ,petite...

Now im seeing a mixed Indian/ white woman with beautiful eyes and some azz. Beautiful woman but kinda crazy. Really sweet though..but crazy and emotional as feck LOL. She simply refuses to let me go!!

I like Persian type women BUT they're extremely materialistic. Being an afro Latin man thats an uphill battle ...

Generally speaking I tend to be attracted to literally all kinds of women. Blonde ,redhead brunette, Latina, Arabic, black , Asian...

Women are simply the most beautiful thing God created..and as @Divorced w 3 said, they ALWAYS come with some baggage . Always..

One colleague said me his dad told him ; " all women are crazy, so just pick one and ride it out " . Old school bluepill mindset, but I do like that qoute..

Personality is a dangerous one...I've learned that bubbly women always have a dark side to them. They simply know how to sell themselves and leverage their initial attractiveness perfectly. As DW3 said omcd you REALLY get to know them its downhill from there.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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@The Duke "....are you with the type of girl you want looks and personality wise?"

Yep. She's not a "unicorn", and I'm not "a Red Pill God"... We're both flesh and blood human beings, who are-at this particular moment in time-compatible with one another
 
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