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The two mountains every man must climb

Pumax

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Have you ever noticed that men often seem to fall into two categories?
1st is High-status, financially successful, "beer guy" physique.
2nd Lower-status, less wealthy, model like physique.

1st is usually the Daddy, the Entrepreneur with the big house with pool, 3 Audi/BMW's cars he do not use, a very active BBQ on saturday with "friends", owner of a studio accounting office or anything which implies He do not have to "work", but actually he makes calls, manage people, and have a net take home pay >100k a year from his own freelancing or entrepreneurial activities.
When He usually walk around the streets He gets look from women of all ages, that look is because He have social proof, status, a beautiful wife that walks near to him, great cars, and maybe someone stops him by the streets to thank him for his business.

2nd is the Cool, Pretty man, and He usually work shifts at Walmart, IKEA, or anywhere else he could get contractred for, and He usually rent a small studio or live with their parents split house. This man will never lose a day in the gym or have a extra pizza that week, He is so focused in his routine that He has a tremendous phisique, like a model.
When He usually walk around the streets He gets look from women of all ages, that look is because He have a very attractive phisique, good fashion, this is the guy women want to ****, and will start to say things to her female friends like "Oh, look how he dressed up with that torn old shirt" and start laughing, while they actually desire him.

For every men you know out there, I'm pretty sure you could identify some in this scheme.. It's almost as if each has discovered a different kind of leverage. Type 1 uses financial and social leverage. Type 2 uses physical leverage.

Both attract women, but often in different ways.
Type 1 seems more likely to end up in LTR, while Type 2 is more often single or in STR.

What's interesting is that if a Type 1 man truly wanted to, he could probably become Type 2 in six months. He just needs a training plan, a diet, and the discipline to follow them. There is a plan with instruction for Type 1 men to become the Type 2 too.

The reverse is much harder. Or even, impossible? Type 2 hasn't yet learned the skills that create status and wealth nor He has istruction for it. Those skills take years to develop, and there isn't a simple roadmap.
Also, 80% of the time, the type 1 man it's just an heir, or a fraud that get his role by nepotism.So which type are you?

Right now, I'm Type 2. After reaching my current checkpoint, my focus is on maintaining that while learning everything I need to become Type 1.
From what I've learnt, is that if you come from a BG where you need to start from scracth, you can become. type 1 if you find someone influential to use you as his right arm, or just as a pawn, but that means you'll become a br
ownnose too.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

zekko

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Different goals, different motivations. I don't think I really fit into either tier though.
 

If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.

Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.

This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

plumber

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i get your question. its not black and white there is lots of gray area.

finding mentors is usually a good idea for either type to grow. find type 1 guys that want to learn type 2 and teach them.

of course you already know that often they have the same women just on a different schedule....
 

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@Pumax "is High-status, financially successful, "beer guy" physique"

My observation has been that such men are pretty rare, thus receive an inordinate amount of media veneration when they occur, and are usually confined to Silicon Valley/parts of Wall Street and Hollywood.
Generally speaking, letting oneself go physically is indicative of the state of yout life more broadly. We can even demonstrate this principle for ourselves:

-Go a single day without washing up, putting on fresh clothes, combing your hair, eating nothing but Twinkies, getting 0 exercise, and watching nothing but reality TV/not reading at all

Then

Do the opposite of all that the following day

Notice how superior your functioning is on Day 2
 
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Gamisch

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This is a strange generalization considering most men fall into neither of these.
It isn't. I completely understand what OP tries to say.

It's not as much about whether this describes ALL types of men, but merely two specific types. The "physically unattractive but financiallywell off" man vs the actual attractive but broke ( less financially set) dude ,and perhaps the fact that these two types can date the same woman back to back.

Yet, type 1 can easily transform himself with the right diet, gym ethics, clothes ect. Type two however can't just ascend and transform into type 1. A man can't just learn how to make money overnight,have a high paying job, be a successful entrepreneur, have the social circle that creates more wealth ect. Some men will never even touch that level.

And its all fun and games being type two UNTILL you understand that "your girl" gets swooped away by an advanced type 1. Type 2 basically doesn't stand any change once "his girl" gets on the radar of a type one man; the crib, the cars, the lifestyle and in a hypothetical case also a decent physique.

OP honestly says he is type two. And I always say that being type 2 is actually quite easy. For example; men in jail are type 2. They got all day to do fitness and some will claim they might even need it to increase their chances of survival. A man can be NEET , just focus on his body and some decent clothes and boom he is " attractive " on first glance.


It takes MUCH MUCH more life skills to be(come) type 1. And imo the sweet spot is to have the money hoarding skills of type 1 combined with the looks of type two.
 
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i get your question. its not black and white there is lots of gray area.

finding mentors is usually a good idea for either type to grow. find type 1 guys that want to learn type 2 and teach them.

of course you already know that often they have the same women just on a different schedule....
Type 2 gotta understand that something gotta give.

He won't be able to be in the gym 6 days a week, he will have to cut off the fancy clothes and save money to get actual assest. He might have to go back to some kinda school and be more disciplined ,which means less time to game women.

Basically type 2 gotta take 1 or two steps back to make 3 to 4 steps ahead in life. Type 2 gotta grind his azz off and double down on putting in effort so he perhaps one day can climb the ladder.

In my culture most men( including yours truly)are type 2. So believe me when I say that being type two will hit the wall around35/ 40/ 45 sometimes 50. Thats 30 possible years of banging women,playing women while getting played and depending on OVERCOMPENSATING for the lack of actual wealth. 30 years can be a good run though...15 years on the other hand...those 15 years will fly by fast...
 
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