“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The two mountains every man must climb

Pumax

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Have you ever noticed that men often seem to fall into two categories?
1st is High-status, financially successful, "beer guy" physique.
2nd Lower-status, less wealthy, model like physique.

1st is usually the Daddy, the Entrepreneur with the big house with pool, 3 Audi/BMW's cars he do not use, a very active BBQ on saturday with "friends", owner of a studio accounting office or anything which implies He do not have to "work", but actually he makes calls, manage people, and have a net take home pay >100k a year from his own freelancing or entrepreneurial activities.
When He usually walk around the streets He gets look from women of all ages, that look is because He have social proof, status, a beautiful wife that walks near to him, great cars, and maybe someone stops him by the streets to thank him for his business.

2nd is the Cool, Pretty man, and He usually work shifts at Walmart, IKEA, or anywhere else he could get contractred for, and He usually rent a small studio or live with their parents split house. This man will never lose a day in the gym or have a extra pizza that week, He is so focused in his routine that He has a tremendous phisique, like a model.
When He usually walk around the streets He gets look from women of all ages, that look is because He have a very attractive phisique, good fashion, this is the guy women want to ****, and will start to say things to her female friends like "Oh, look how he dressed up with that torn old shirt" and start laughing, while they actually desire him.

For every men you know out there, I'm pretty sure you could identify some in this scheme.. It's almost as if each has discovered a different kind of leverage. Type 1 uses financial and social leverage. Type 2 uses physical leverage.

Both attract women, but often in different ways.
Type 1 seems more likely to end up in LTR, while Type 2 is more often single or in STR.

What's interesting is that if a Type 1 man truly wanted to, he could probably become Type 2 in six months. He just needs a training plan, a diet, and the discipline to follow them. There is a plan with instruction for Type 1 men to become the Type 2 too.

The reverse is much harder. Or even, impossible? Type 2 hasn't yet learned the skills that create status and wealth nor He has istruction for it. Those skills take years to develop, and there isn't a simple roadmap.
Also, 80% of the time, the type 1 man it's just an heir, or a fraud that get his role by nepotism.So which type are you?

Right now, I'm Type 2. After reaching my current checkpoint, my focus is on maintaining that while learning everything I need to become Type 1.
From what I've learnt, is that if you come from a BG where you need to start from scracth, you can become. type 1 if you find someone influential to use you as his right arm, or just as a pawn, but that means you'll become a br
ownnose too.
 

zekko

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Different goals, different motivations. I don't think I really fit into either tier though.
 

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i get your question. its not black and white there is lots of gray area.

finding mentors is usually a good idea for either type to grow. find type 1 guys that want to learn type 2 and teach them.

of course you already know that often they have the same women just on a different schedule....
 
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