"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
The Truth Will Set You Free
- Thread starter Urbanyst
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
My apartment is a panty melter.
Just seeing (or hearing) where I live alone is enough for most women to take more interest. Shows I have MONEY and I'm thriving. Often its enough just to live in the city. But to live in a nice part of the city.. even better.
In addition.. having a social circle of successful men with MONEY also helps. Which I do.
Beyond that.. its just how you carry yourself. Clothes make a difference, but I'm not big into being stylish and flashy. I dress well for work, but on weekends I'm a jeans guy.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
What city do you live in?
I have a 4 bedroom house in the suburbs. I guess that doesn't impress women but I'm not gonna change my whole life just for them. They would probably be impressed by a condo or something but why would I want to do that when I already have a 4 bedroom house that I own outright. I live 30 minutes from downtown Orlando.
I wonder why they are impressed with an apartment that somebody rents rather than a house somebody owns. Makes no sense to me, but I already knew they had hamster brains so nothing new.
btownbuck2012
Master Don Juan
What type of work do you do?
If you're not willing to make changes.. then stop complaining about having to "jerk it" every night because you don't have HOT women to f*ck.
Either make the changes.. or keep masturbating. Its up to you lol.
I know guys here are always saying not to do ANYTHING just to attract women. But realistically.. guys who work at attracting women will have more abundance. Its math.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
RichardTheFrog
Banned
I'm not going to sell my house to move downtown. I barely even like downtown. Plus, I couldn't possibly fit all my tools in an apartment. I've been getting bored of going out lately. I just work flipping houses every day, 7 days per week. When I go downtown, I just see stupid people.
People have apartments because they work downtown. I don't.
LOL. Love the "Herbanist" nickname.
The appearance of status/VALUE totally matters in cold approaches.
A homeless guy cannot afford clean clothes, good grooming and to take a shower. So that lack of MONEY will impact his success during cold approach.
In addition.. cold approach isn't everything when it comes to getting laid. SO WHAT if you can successfully close 20 women in one day? If they lose interest later because your phone runs out of minutes, you live with rats and your car has more rust on it than paint.. what good are your successful cold approaches anyway?
Reading your posts.. you are all about the upfront "meeting women" but you don't really have sh*t to say about what happens after that lol.