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Don Juan
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I'm sorry, but there are a lot of young, aspiring DJ's who need to know this information. Because without it, your chances of actually getting laid are going to be greatly reduced.
Understand, this post will be attacked by all the Key Board Jockies who think that you can look like the Hunch Back of Notre Dame, and still get laid if you have good game. This is not true, nor will it ever be true if you're an OBESE MALE.
Let's examine this question. Besides on television, how many OBESE men do you know that are married to attractive women? I'm not talking about 30 pounds overweight, I'm talking OBESE. I'll bet you don't know many. Now some of you might ask why I'm only referring to OBESE men. That's because it's significantly easier for obese women to get laid than it is for obese men. There is a whole cottage industry that caters to Big Beautiful Women and the men who love them. It's actually a quite common fetish amongst a lot of men. There are 300 pound women who get men to pay money to see them on cam. I'm not lying about this. Now, how many dating sites cater to Big Handsome Men? I dare you to find ONE site that caters specifically to Obese men and the women who love them. You won't find any, because there isn't one out there. Also, how many chicks do you know that would pay some 300 pound guy to jack off for them on cam?
We've all seen the pictures of that fat slob on here, who has a couple of cute chicks hugging him in some club. OK, firstly, they were sitting by him. Lots of fat guys are FRIENDS with girls, few have sex with them. Secondly, we've all heard the saying about "the sun shining on a dog's ass". I'm sure there are some fat guys who do pretty well, but I'd bet the farm they are few and far between.
So why do I think this is so important for young DJ's to know? Because if you're obese, the very first thing you need to do is LOSE WEIGHT. You don't have to be buff, and you don't have to look like a male model, but you can't be obese. If you are, this will set you so far back, that it's almost not worth even doing. Can you overcome it? maybe, but that's like running a 100 meter dash and giving the other guys a 70 meter head start. Sure, if you're superman you could catch up, but why make it that hard?
It is true that women don't put as much emphasis on LOOKS as guys do. But women put a TREMENDOUS amount of emphasis on OBESITY. Most women don't like being fat themselves, so they sure as hell aren't going to like it if you're obese.
You don't have to be good looking in the face to be a DJ. Women are much more subjective about what they deem attractive than guys are. But women almost universally do not like OBESE men. Here's a few more reasons why:
Even if your game is solid, women will still be embarrassed to be seen with you in public or have you meet their family.
It's been proven that not only can obese men not find dates, they can't even find friendship. Obese men are far more likely to be lonely than their slimmer counterparts.
People will not take you as seriously if you're OBESE. Think about it, say you have to chose between a doctor who's in great shape, dresses sharp well groomed, and some doctor who's 5'7 350lbs, his shirt keeps coming untucked because his stomach is too big. He has three chins etc....honestly, who would you think is more competent? The fat doctor could well be more competent, but most people won't perceive him this way.
In closing, listen to what I say. The single most important factor in women finding you attractive is NOT BEING OBESE. Fix this, and it doesn't matter if you have acne, a big nose, ****ty hair..IT DOESN'T MATTER. It' only matters if you're OBESE.
Understand, this post will be attacked by all the Key Board Jockies who think that you can look like the Hunch Back of Notre Dame, and still get laid if you have good game. This is not true, nor will it ever be true if you're an OBESE MALE.
Let's examine this question. Besides on television, how many OBESE men do you know that are married to attractive women? I'm not talking about 30 pounds overweight, I'm talking OBESE. I'll bet you don't know many. Now some of you might ask why I'm only referring to OBESE men. That's because it's significantly easier for obese women to get laid than it is for obese men. There is a whole cottage industry that caters to Big Beautiful Women and the men who love them. It's actually a quite common fetish amongst a lot of men. There are 300 pound women who get men to pay money to see them on cam. I'm not lying about this. Now, how many dating sites cater to Big Handsome Men? I dare you to find ONE site that caters specifically to Obese men and the women who love them. You won't find any, because there isn't one out there. Also, how many chicks do you know that would pay some 300 pound guy to jack off for them on cam?
We've all seen the pictures of that fat slob on here, who has a couple of cute chicks hugging him in some club. OK, firstly, they were sitting by him. Lots of fat guys are FRIENDS with girls, few have sex with them. Secondly, we've all heard the saying about "the sun shining on a dog's ass". I'm sure there are some fat guys who do pretty well, but I'd bet the farm they are few and far between.
So why do I think this is so important for young DJ's to know? Because if you're obese, the very first thing you need to do is LOSE WEIGHT. You don't have to be buff, and you don't have to look like a male model, but you can't be obese. If you are, this will set you so far back, that it's almost not worth even doing. Can you overcome it? maybe, but that's like running a 100 meter dash and giving the other guys a 70 meter head start. Sure, if you're superman you could catch up, but why make it that hard?
It is true that women don't put as much emphasis on LOOKS as guys do. But women put a TREMENDOUS amount of emphasis on OBESITY. Most women don't like being fat themselves, so they sure as hell aren't going to like it if you're obese.
You don't have to be good looking in the face to be a DJ. Women are much more subjective about what they deem attractive than guys are. But women almost universally do not like OBESE men. Here's a few more reasons why:
Even if your game is solid, women will still be embarrassed to be seen with you in public or have you meet their family.
It's been proven that not only can obese men not find dates, they can't even find friendship. Obese men are far more likely to be lonely than their slimmer counterparts.
People will not take you as seriously if you're OBESE. Think about it, say you have to chose between a doctor who's in great shape, dresses sharp well groomed, and some doctor who's 5'7 350lbs, his shirt keeps coming untucked because his stomach is too big. He has three chins etc....honestly, who would you think is more competent? The fat doctor could well be more competent, but most people won't perceive him this way.
In closing, listen to what I say. The single most important factor in women finding you attractive is NOT BEING OBESE. Fix this, and it doesn't matter if you have acne, a big nose, ****ty hair..IT DOESN'T MATTER. It' only matters if you're OBESE.