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Don Juan
gd stuff man
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Couldn't agree more. This site has taught me so much, but I still get very skeptical when I read some idiot saying "Ima get dat b*tch in my pantz! B*tches aint sh*t!!! Every gurl cheats. PUA 4 LYFE!!!!"Technical1 said:I still think the PUA game is mostly directed at that 10-20% of the female population that throws the pvssy around most freely. Which includes girls with psychological problems, an "emotional void" inside them, abandonment issues, and princesses whose identity has been hollowed out by 20 years of getting worshipped for good looks. Guys develop their game for this crowd, target their game on this crowd, learn their experience with this crowd, and then tell us how "women" are. Whatever.
Not that this article doesn't contain a grain of truth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
What exactly is "mental security"?Don Juanabbe said:The irony of this thread is that if you act like the guy who wrote the first post, you will likely end up with a woman who will stay with you and never cheat.
Not all women are as described above, but most in the post feminist world are. There are loads of women in their 30s who would be more than loyal to a man, namely because they know first hand how they've been duped by the system.
There are still good women out there, most of them are not from North America though. That's why you see a lot of White dudes with Asian women - because they tend to be more loyal, like women used to be.
One thing though, is that women want security - mental security, if you can play that successfully, you'll never need to worry about a cheating women. Just as there are guys who don't cheat, there are women who don't cheat - the reason you don't know them is because they are mostly in marriages and relationships.
The first post rings true in a lot of ways, but it's only part of the overall picture.
I agree completely.Technical1 said:I still think the PUA game is mostly directed at that 10-20% of the female population that throws the pvssy around most freely. Which includes girls with psychological problems, an "emotional void" inside them, abandonment issues, and princesses whose identity has been hollowed out by 20 years of getting worshipped for good looks. Guys develop their game for this crowd, target their game on this crowd, learn their experience with this crowd, and then tell us how "women" are. Whatever.
Not that this article doesn't contain a grain of truth.
So if only insecure people go to clubs, why are YOU there?Sandow said:I've always felt like you will never find a quality chick at a club. These kind of girls are out there for attention because they are insecure. (despite what you may think many HB9-10's are insecure) So they need validation from guys and girls. Think about it, a confident secure chick doesn't need validations that she's pretty, she already knows it, so she doesn't need to seek approval from others. Insecure chicks also sleep around a lot. anyways I kind of went off on a tengent there, but it just seems like the OP's advice mostly works on low quality insecure chicks.
Wow, that is crazy. Society has changed.Jizamurai said:HAhahahahaha... yea that reminds me of something i saw at the bookstore. On the cover of BlackWoman magazine(dont ask) i saw a headline for an article titled something like "BUT IT WAS JUST ORAL SEX! - Does he consider it cheating?" WTF?!
The conclusion to the article was pretty much what i expected but i was still disgusted that this type of thinking was being promoted.
Although it is a sad fact that theres no gurantee that your woman won't cheat, I think there are things you can do to help lower the chances. Most guys who want relationships, after learning all this DJ stuff, forget how to maintain the relationship after the intial seduction is performed.
First of all, you need to make sure you give her mind-blowing sex, no no, correction, THE BEST ****ING SEX SHE HAS EVERR HAD!! you need to be a ****ing sex god in her eyes man!!Just like you took the time to figure out how to pick her up, theres a whole nother world of learning when it comes to pleasing her physically (anyone can give her sex, but good sex in much more rare)
This includes fulfilling fantasies she has like randomly meeting her and ****ing her in public somwhere. And always keep progressing with it! Don't let it get boring or her mind will wander.
Also, if you want a relationship then learn to pick out better women. That hot blonde that you have around yer arm may be quite a trophy, but she may be more ****ed up in the head then ud ever think. And yea yea I kno this doesnt guarantee anything, but you can always better ur chances with a gurl who doesnt have deep emotional problems bc daddy was never there.
These are just two things of a much bigger discussion. Never let your guard down. As I like to think, you have to learn the powers of seduction in order to defend yourself against it.
Like jedi vs sith! hahaha- ok sorry.
Lastly, as much as I love women I do hold men with a higher regard, because I dont think all men would cheat 'if the situation was correct'. Men have the ability to possess virtue and integrity and all that stoic **** and can live by it to the death (even tho this is rare these days). Pook understood this well. This is something that I think women lack because of the power that emotion has on them.
p.s. my newyears resolution is to stop swearing
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.