You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
lol same here. I'm not buying what this guy is saying. I have girls asking me out and offering sex to me on a regular basis but even then I can't "usually" have sex with any random girl I ask out. I can smell the BS hereBlusher said:I've had my share of action during the last 12 years or so, I have seen some incredible sh*t but this is VERY hard to believe:
Note: I am not saying it never happens but pay attention to the 'usually' ...
This is horse****, I stopped reading at that point.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=116668d9930380 said:i can understand why this guy thinks this covers all women. It certainly describes alot I've met however remember that this guy is ****ing the ones like this, he's probably not taken into account all the ones that turned him down. I don't think men and women are any different in either cheating or wanting sex however it is easier for women to get it than men (that accounts for his statistic) when they are younger but it's definately easier for men when they get older. Women peak around 22, men around 28. That's the reason why I think a men should always aim around 6 years younger than the women. That's the benefit I suppose, as long as you don't buy into the feminist crap that that's just male insecurity and you should still go for a girl the same age. Personally, I'm 30 now and I still like the fact I get away with banging collge girls - although I'm starting to feel a bit old now.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
diceman said:For example, I walked a girl home once & as we were entering her house she said “I don’t do this kinda thing often”, & that was obviously her ‘anti slut defence’ in action, & I couldn’t help but give a sarcastic comment. I thought it was a good neg-hit at the time, but I heard later from her friends that she said she felt like I was ‘using her for sex’.
This is so true. His post is very revealing and insightful, but it seems typical of e-playas generalize all women as hos/cheaters/slvts/etc based on all the women they were successful with, and just mentally block out or forget all the women who rejected them or didn't even respond to them in the first place. It may be a helpful mentality for "sarging", but not when it comes to writing about people.d9930380 said:i can understand why this guy thinks this covers all women. It certainly describes alot I've met however remember that this guy is ****ing the ones like this, he's probably not taken into account all the ones that turned him down. I don't think men and women are any different in either cheating or wanting sex however it is easier for women to get it than men (that accounts for his statistic) when they are younger but it's definately easier for men when they get older. Women peak around 22, men around 28. That's the reason why I think a men should always aim around 6 years younger than the women. That's the benefit I suppose, as long as you don't buy into the feminist crap that that's just male insecurity and you should still go for a girl the same age. Personally, I'm 30 now and I still like the fact I get away with banging collge girls - although I'm starting to feel a bit old now.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Jon55 said:Damn. I know this is a stupid question, but what do you say to a girl in that kind of situation if you want to sleep with her yet not feel slutty about it?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
All I'm saying is I don't hate women, I just may not like how some of them turned out thanks to social conditioning and realise they do have power over men when it comes to the mating game. This means I know that I need to approach and work at it in order to get what I want. Hope that clears things up. And yes I'm an avid gym goer thank you.DJVladdy said:Piccolo, you just like to disagree for the sake of disagreeing don't you.
Mad Maniac, you okay buddy? Go to a gym, crash a party or something. On the other hand don't, because thanks to your mindset, more women for me. Thanks
WRONG. Men have waaaaay more reason to be polygamous. Men have millions of sperm, women have a limited amount of eggs.Remember, it's in guy's interests to be monogamous and in girl's interests to be polygamous. It's supply and demand, economics if you will. Why is it that you know lots of decent single guys but the attractive women are taken?
Sorry perhaps I should have been clearer. I wasn't talking about necessarily what I feel, but merely how it is generally in society. I'm saying in general women are more sought after and prized than men, so they find it easier to be polygamous whereas men often will and feel the need to latch onto a woman they get with, because if she goes, they'll have a tough time of finding a suitable new partner.Holland said:WRONG. Men have waaaaay more reason to be polygamous. Men have millions of sperm, women have a limited amount of eggs.
But you say: "I don't want to fertilize women and have hundreds of kids."
It doesn't matter, you are hard-wired for this.
It doesn't mean you can't control this.
Truth is that a woman will only cheat on you if she find's a man who is a better deal than you are. A man on the other hand is far more likely to cheat from an evolutionary perspective (he has unlimited supply of sperm).
Good for women we have something called respect and self-control.
But you have to understand you've got to be an ALPHA male if you want your girl to be faithful.
If you don't and stay mediocre, your woman will probably end up cheating on you with a a guy like OP or another PUA.
BTW: Woman have power over you because you're weak. You need to become strong and have a powerful frame. If you get that and get rid of all the BS beliefs you will be the one with power.
Hope that helps you. Cheers.
I TOTALLY AGREE WITH MANIC...women are becoming like men and men are becoming and acting more feminized day by day and generation by generation.Mad Manic said:Society has created what has been created. Women have higher sexual and social power than men, a lot higher, our society is a feminist one geared to the advantage of women. As a consequence this is what many women have become, especially the attractive ones who subconsciously feel and utilise their power. Don't hate the women as such, but perhaps hate the way they have turned out thanks to society and indeed the wimply submissive men as a result of society and social dynamics too.
Remember, it's in guy's interests to be monogamous and in girl's interests to be polygamous. It's supply and demand, economics if you will. Why is it that you know lots of decent single guys but the attractive women are taken?
MM
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.