RedZone122
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I think the purpose of this thread was extremely mutated and deformed....
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
The truth about 'alpha males'
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Who the **** cares if you're an alpha or not... Just be the best you can be.
Thank You I couldn't of said it better myself!!
That is what this site is all about!!!
End of alpha discussion.
Who the **** cares if you're an alpha or not... Just be the best you can be.
Thank You I couldn't of said it better myself!!
That is what this site is all about!!!
End of alpha discussion.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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I think if somone pretends to be a ALPHA for long enough they will eventualy become one its no genes.................lets say for example Tony Avaiti was born in a small Italian village he wasnt born a ALPHA he moves to America at 18 he starts getting involved in the mafia at 26 hes the head of the 5 top mafia famlies in America.........Position like that requires balls and requires being able to control people it requires an alpha male............im not saying that being an alpha male is the best thing ever im just trying to say one who is not an alpha can become an alpha
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Originally posted by squirrels
He's right about one thing...if you HAVE to ask if you're an alpha-male and you're trying to convince people you're an alpha-male, then you're NOT one.
But you CAN become one. Maelstrom re-hashes the same psycho-babble that applies to everything...everything in your attitudes/behaviors is part genetics and part environment. But although your "Formative" years are very important, they arent' the only years that matter. Beta-male attitude can be undone.
But here's a hint for you. The alpha-male doesn't worry about appearing alpha, he just is. He follows his own attitudes and isn't afraid to reveal these to other people. He doesn't worry about whether they adopt the SAME attitudes, he doesn't spend time trying to impress other males and he CERTAINLY doesn't try to promote his own status above others.
You can't become alpha by winning the approval of other alphas. THat's the ass-kissing beta-male corporate society we live in today. If you want to be alpha, you have to not care about being alpha.
I agree with you 100% on this quote. If you have to keep asking yourself are you good looking, chances are you are not good looking. If you have to keep telling yourself that you are a good singer, chances are you are not a good singer. If you have to try to convenince yourself you are good in bed, guess what? You are probably horrible. If you have to try to convenince yourself you are an Alpha male, you are not an alpha male.
The thing is, this site really goes about it the wrong way to show you how to be an alpha male. I laugh when I see a guy who is normally shy and then gets C&F around woman. If I can spot it, you know a woman will shot him down like a heat seeking missle.
WOMAN JUDGE YOU MORE BY WHAT IS YOUR STATUS TOWARDS OTHER MEN, THEN THEY DO FOR OTHER WOMAN.
If other men look up to you, repect you and admire you, woman will be fighting to take off their panties to get with you. You can't be an "alpha male" around woman, and be laid back, insecure around your buddies.
I wasn't born with an alpha male trait, or at least i don't I was, but I have been hardened by real life over the past 2 years. Over the past year or so, I have no problem being an "alpha male" because i have no problem at all speaking my mind to anyone at anytime, rather it be woman, man, older person or young person.
I think that's the key to being an alpha male. Not necessary making jokes about people when you are around people. Not being the "life of the party", It's really just not being afraid to speak your mind or do what you really want to do in any situtation. it takes some training, but It can be done.