RedZone122
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I think the purpose of this thread was extremely mutated and deformed....
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The truth about 'alpha males'
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Who the **** cares if you're an alpha or not... Just be the best you can be.
Thank You I couldn't of said it better myself!!
That is what this site is all about!!!
End of alpha discussion.
Who the **** cares if you're an alpha or not... Just be the best you can be.
Thank You I couldn't of said it better myself!!
That is what this site is all about!!!
End of alpha discussion.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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I think if somone pretends to be a ALPHA for long enough they will eventualy become one its no genes.................lets say for example Tony Avaiti was born in a small Italian village he wasnt born a ALPHA he moves to America at 18 he starts getting involved in the mafia at 26 hes the head of the 5 top mafia famlies in America.........Position like that requires balls and requires being able to control people it requires an alpha male............im not saying that being an alpha male is the best thing ever im just trying to say one who is not an alpha can become an alpha
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Originally posted by squirrels
He's right about one thing...if you HAVE to ask if you're an alpha-male and you're trying to convince people you're an alpha-male, then you're NOT one.
But you CAN become one. Maelstrom re-hashes the same psycho-babble that applies to everything...everything in your attitudes/behaviors is part genetics and part environment. But although your "Formative" years are very important, they arent' the only years that matter. Beta-male attitude can be undone.
But here's a hint for you. The alpha-male doesn't worry about appearing alpha, he just is. He follows his own attitudes and isn't afraid to reveal these to other people. He doesn't worry about whether they adopt the SAME attitudes, he doesn't spend time trying to impress other males and he CERTAINLY doesn't try to promote his own status above others.
You can't become alpha by winning the approval of other alphas. THat's the ass-kissing beta-male corporate society we live in today. If you want to be alpha, you have to not care about being alpha.
I agree with you 100% on this quote. If you have to keep asking yourself are you good looking, chances are you are not good looking. If you have to keep telling yourself that you are a good singer, chances are you are not a good singer. If you have to try to convenince yourself you are good in bed, guess what? You are probably horrible. If you have to try to convenince yourself you are an Alpha male, you are not an alpha male.
The thing is, this site really goes about it the wrong way to show you how to be an alpha male. I laugh when I see a guy who is normally shy and then gets C&F around woman. If I can spot it, you know a woman will shot him down like a heat seeking missle.
WOMAN JUDGE YOU MORE BY WHAT IS YOUR STATUS TOWARDS OTHER MEN, THEN THEY DO FOR OTHER WOMAN.
If other men look up to you, repect you and admire you, woman will be fighting to take off their panties to get with you. You can't be an "alpha male" around woman, and be laid back, insecure around your buddies.
I wasn't born with an alpha male trait, or at least i don't I was, but I have been hardened by real life over the past 2 years. Over the past year or so, I have no problem being an "alpha male" because i have no problem at all speaking my mind to anyone at anytime, rather it be woman, man, older person or young person.
I think that's the key to being an alpha male. Not necessary making jokes about people when you are around people. Not being the "life of the party", It's really just not being afraid to speak your mind or do what you really want to do in any situtation. it takes some training, but It can be done.