suavesuave
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i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You asked a black girl why black guys get white girls? Wouldn't it make more sense to ask a white girl? At least she's getting the black guy.suavesuave said:i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That sounds like a jaded black sista, who is pissed that more black men are jumping ship. I being an example of this i get white girls because they find me attractive(duh), my kick ass personaity and lastly of course my huge DIICK. HA J/K i am bigger then average though.suavesuave said:i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
Either your being sarcastic or you were hooked into the sterotype sh!t...justiceseeker said:You mean all black guys don't have big -----s ?????
It's true for me too, unless the black chick has a good attitude aka isn't a ghetto, hood talking chick and of course if she looks good then i will go for her. Unfortunately those type of women are a true rarity.Castor_Troyy said:One of my black friends whom like white girls told me that he goes for white chicks because he cant stand black women's attitudes. Asked him myself.
Dont think its all true, but thats my 2 cents
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Black females tend have alot of issues due to their men having been subjugated in american culture and having to live as lower class males under white males.suavesuave said:i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon: