suavesuave
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i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
suavesuave
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serously man. ask any black girl.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
justiceseeker
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You mean all black guys don't have big -----s ?????
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lmao
suavesuave
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i didnt say it. the girl i met said it.
Its ok u dont have a big gun.
Its ok u dont have a big gun.
oakraiderz2
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Black girls more often get upset when they see a black guy with a white girl...so i dont think her biased opinion should be taken seriously.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Alphamale1821
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That sounds like a jaded black sista, who is pissed that more black men are jumping ship. I being an example of this i get white girls because they find me attractive(duh), my kick ass personaity and lastly of course my huge DIICK. HA J/K i am bigger then average though.suavesuave said:
As for lying i try not to lie to chicks, a player has to lie to pull biitches. i don't really consider myself a player but more so a genuinely confident gentlemen. The difference? A player= pull biitches but lies. Gentlemen= pulls biitches with less lies and more truth. I'm not perfect though simply human.
suavesuave
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nice lie
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One of my black friends whom like white girls told me that he goes for white chicks because he cant stand black women's attitudes. Asked him myself.
Dont think its all true, but thats my 2 cents
Dont think its all true, but thats my 2 cents
I.A.F.Y.B.
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Either your being sarcastic or you were hooked into the sterotype sh!t...justiceseeker said:
My ex only use to date black guys. She met me and said I had a bigger d!ck than most of the black guys she dated.
Alphamale1821
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It's true for me too, unless the black chick has a good attitude aka isn't a ghetto, hood talking chick and of course if she looks good then i will go for her. Unfortunately those type of women are a true rarity.Castor_Troyy said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Black females tend have alot of issues due to their men having been subjugated in american culture and having to live as lower class males under white males.suavesuave said:
Living in a society built owned and controlled by your ex-master is a very difficult and mentally and socially destructive task that has left the majority of the black american population in a very pricarious position and developmentally stunted..
Instinctively and carnally women expect the men they identify with the most to be providers and and protectors... America was not designed to facilitate the success of Freed slaves and black men to any substantial extent so it would take a very strong educated black woman to not speak to a white man of her disdain for "black men" for such a woman would understand the struggle and share the pain that is the survival of black america..
OR
MAYBE BLACK MEN AQRE JUST LIERSS ABOUT EVERYTHING INCLUDING THEIR D!CK SIZE... YOU CHOSE the option that best suits your comfort or intelligence level.