suavesuave
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i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You asked a black girl why black guys get white girls? Wouldn't it make more sense to ask a white girl? At least she's getting the black guy.suavesuave said:i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That sounds like a jaded black sista, who is pissed that more black men are jumping ship. I being an example of this i get white girls because they find me attractive(duh), my kick ass personaity and lastly of course my huge DIICK. HA J/K i am bigger then average though.suavesuave said:i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
Either your being sarcastic or you were hooked into the sterotype sh!t...justiceseeker said:You mean all black guys don't have big -----s ?????
It's true for me too, unless the black chick has a good attitude aka isn't a ghetto, hood talking chick and of course if she looks good then i will go for her. Unfortunately those type of women are a true rarity.Castor_Troyy said:One of my black friends whom like white girls told me that he goes for white chicks because he cant stand black women's attitudes. Asked him myself.
Dont think its all true, but thats my 2 cents
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Black females tend have alot of issues due to their men having been subjugated in american culture and having to live as lower class males under white males.suavesuave said:i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon: