"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I asked some mexican girl why any guy gets any girls she told me "CHICAS LOCOOO"
 

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serously man. ask any black girl.
 

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yes because all black girls know the truth about every single black guy on earth. baka.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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i didnt say it. the girl i met said it.
Its ok u dont have a big gun.
 

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suavesuave said:
i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
You asked a black girl why black guys get white girls? Wouldn't it make more sense to ask a white girl? At least she's getting the black guy.
 

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Black girls more often get upset when they see a black guy with a white girl...so i dont think her biased opinion should be taken seriously.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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suavesuave said:
i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
That sounds like a jaded black sista, who is pissed that more black men are jumping ship. I being an example of this i get white girls because they find me attractive(duh), my kick ass personaity and lastly of course my huge DIICK. HA J/K i am bigger then average though.

As for lying i try not to lie to chicks, a player has to lie to pull biitches. i don't really consider myself a player but more so a genuinely confident gentlemen. The difference? A player= pull biitches but lies. Gentlemen= pulls biitches with less lies and more truth. I'm not perfect though simply human.:up:
 

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nice lie
 

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One of my black friends whom like white girls told me that he goes for white chicks because he cant stand black women's attitudes. Asked him myself.

Dont think its all true, but thats my 2 cents
 

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justiceseeker said:
You mean all black guys don't have big -----s ?????
Either your being sarcastic or you were hooked into the sterotype sh!t...

My ex only use to date black guys. She met me and said I had a bigger d!ck than most of the black guys she dated.
 

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Castor_Troyy said:
One of my black friends whom like white girls told me that he goes for white chicks because he cant stand black women's attitudes. Asked him myself.

Dont think its all true, but thats my 2 cents
It's true for me too, unless the black chick has a good attitude aka isn't a ghetto, hood talking chick and of course if she looks good then i will go for her. Unfortunately those type of women are a true rarity.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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suavesuave said:
i asked a black girl. why some black guys get hot white girls...she said cause they lie about everything even their disk size hehehehehe :moon:
Black females tend have alot of issues due to their men having been subjugated in american culture and having to live as lower class males under white males.

Living in a society built owned and controlled by your ex-master is a very difficult and mentally and socially destructive task that has left the majority of the black american population in a very pricarious position and developmentally stunted..

Instinctively and carnally women expect the men they identify with the most to be providers and and protectors... America was not designed to facilitate the success of Freed slaves and black men to any substantial extent so it would take a very strong educated black woman to not speak to a white man of her disdain for "black men" for such a woman would understand the struggle and share the pain that is the survival of black america..

OR

MAYBE BLACK MEN AQRE JUST LIERSS ABOUT EVERYTHING INCLUDING THEIR D!CK SIZE... YOU CHOSE the option that best suits your comfort or intelligence level.
 
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