GS750
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Yes. Redheads are GS750's kryptonite
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
The thread of would bang and don't know why.
- Thread starter LiveFreeX
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
zekko
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I've heard several variations on this. If you're a "pretty" boy, if you're too wrapped up in your looks, if you spend too much time on your hair, all of those things can be a turn off to a woman. Because spending a lot of time on your appearance is a FEMININE trait, it's what women do. It's not masculine. If you are a man of action, you should have a haircut that is easily maintained, that sort of thing. A truly masculine man doesn't sit around worrying about how good he looks.
As for the original post, what nationality is that, Korean? How old is that girl anyway?
Atom Smasher
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I've wondered that myself, but I have a highly sensitive sniffing apparatus and I suspect there could be a lot of ripeness lurking beneath.
Atom Smasher
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I've always had the hots for her too (Samantha Brown from the Travel Channel).
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
PeasantPlayer
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When that show Blind date was on, I remember this date it was an attractive black girl HB8. She went on a date with a good looking guy, he was also african american. They went on their date conversed, conversation flowed, laughter. In the middle of their date she hits him with the "you're attractive good looking guy, but I like ugly guys, thugs" This guy didn't know how to react it was hilarious
LiveFreeX
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Chinese and Mid 20's. They look young forever. 
zekko
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Lol, If some girl told me "but I like thugs" on some date, I would leave her in the middle of the street. I can't imagine a bigger red flag than some chick who is literally only attracted to thugs.