Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Anyone can post pictures of hot girls but what about those things where you look at them and you don't know why you like them but you would fvck them anyway. Has anyone ever had that experience?

I'll give you an example, something about this girl's voice and the way she bobs her head around makes me want to pound the hell out of her.


Another example, unfortunately I don't have a picture, I picked up a girl in a clown costume once and fvcked her while she was still in costume, red nose and all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Desdinova

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Every once in a while, I'll find myself looking at women who dress plain and have an average face. You know the kind, somewhat loose fitting jeans, a fvcking hoodie, maybe glasses, maybe a little bit overweight, hair that's not dyed, and I'll want to fvck the hell out of them. Here's a good example:

http://brittanyherself.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/DSC05756.jpg

I saw one last night at the bar and I was just insanely attracted to her.
 

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What is it about glasses that makes chicks hotter, I love chicks in glasses.

http://www.demotivationalposters.or...hawt-cubby-demotivational-posters-117876.html

Without glasses? Meh... my first chinese girlfriend had HUGE glasses and couldn't see 2 feet infront of her without them but it was a huge turn on when she wore them. This is gonna sound fvcked up but I can't wait until my wife has to wear glasses until then I get her to wear the ones with no lenses.


Same with a girl in stockings/heels, don't really care what she looks like as long as she's in em. I have no interest in naked women.
 

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I think it has to do with the feminine traits that each woman transmit. It works the same way as when an average man has massive amounts of masculinity that attracts every female.
 

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I think it has to do with the feminine traits that each woman transmit. It works the same way as when an average man has massive amounts of masculinity that attracts every female.
Sounds sensible!

I remember a professor at university. She was young (~30), very plain and slightly chubby, looking overworked and tired. There was nothing particularly - anything about her. I was rock hard under my desk the entire class.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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marmel75

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Every once in a while, I'll find myself looking at women who dress plain and have an average face. You know the kind, somewhat loose fitting jeans, a fvcking hoodie, maybe glasses, maybe a little bit overweight, hair that's not dyed, and I'll want to fvck the hell out of them. Here's a good example:

http://brittanyherself.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/DSC05756.jpg

I saw one last night at the bar and I was just insanely attracted to her.
She looks like she would beg you to fvck her in the ass and then when you pull it out immediately turn around and shove the whole thing down her throat
 

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Another one and I don't know why... chicks with braces. I've never dated one, but I occasionally see adult women with braces and I just fvcking love it

this, instant erection. Might be because it's a sign of youthness? I mean, they are normally used by teenagers.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sounds like you just need to go jack off. then SEE if she's still so attractive for you. bet she aint.
 

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Another one and I don't know why... chicks with braces. I've never dated one, but I occasionally see adult women with braces and I just fvcking love it

Yeah, until she scrapes your d1ck raw with them and you have to sit down on the toilet because you can't even hold it to piss for a week...lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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When you are horny, you will be attracted to a lot of women that you're not normally attracted to. Once you jack off or have sex, you will look at them like wtf was I thinking.
 

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easier to get money out of them possibly?
Nah she was talking about her personal dating life we had a 30 minute conversation. She said she use to like pretty boys, but don't know when a guy takes longer to get ready then here. Then she said her taste changed and she likes ugly thuggish guys who are manly. See looks aren't eveything:D;)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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