"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The thread of would bang and don't know why.

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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She said she use to like pretty boys, but don't know when a guy takes longer to get ready then here.
I've heard several variations on this. If you're a "pretty" boy, if you're too wrapped up in your looks, if you spend too much time on your hair, all of those things can be a turn off to a woman. Because spending a lot of time on your appearance is a FEMININE trait, it's what women do. It's not masculine. If you are a man of action, you should have a haircut that is easily maintained, that sort of thing. A truly masculine man doesn't sit around worrying about how good he looks.

As for the original post, what nationality is that, Korean? How old is that girl anyway?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I've heard several variations on this. If you're a "pretty" boy, if you're too wrapped up in your looks, if you spend too much time on your hair, all of those things can be a turn off to a woman. Because spending a lot of time on your appearance is a FEMININE trait, it's what women do. It's not masculine. If you are a man of action, you should have a haircut that is easily maintained, that sort of thing. A truly masculine man doesn't sit around worrying about how good he looks.

As for the original post, what nationality is that, Korean? How old is that girl anyway?
When that show Blind date was on, I remember this date it was an attractive black girl HB8. She went on a date with a good looking guy, he was also african american. They went on their date conversed, conversation flowed, laughter. In the middle of their date she hits him with the "you're attractive good looking guy, but I like ugly guys, thugs" This guy didn't know how to react it was hilarious
 

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In the middle of their date she hits him with the "you're attractive good looking guy, but I like ugly guys, thugs" This guy didn't know how to react it was hilarious
Lol, If some girl told me "but I like thugs" on some date, I would leave her in the middle of the street. I can't imagine a bigger red flag than some chick who is literally only attracted to thugs.
 
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