I am happy with threads like this.
We must encourage one another to find a place of peace during these wild times when it comes to women, love, dating and sex. I get that this isn't necessarily to keep you away from the chase or whatever, but rather to encourage you to find inner peace.
Luckily you provided an solution in the OP; be the best you can be. Aim high.
Because lets face it: at some point ,indeed, approach nr 101 and failed date nr 101 will chip away from your self esteem. Not only that. The time and cash you spend on getting nothing is time and cash you'll never get back. At some point you have to be realistic about it and face the facts. If you spend 30 weeks a year in a club to rake home one woman, then you are being inefficient AF. If you have to pay 250 bucks a month for premium subscriptions to go on 5 dates (where you get: hardly ever sex or more than one ONS)a year, you're inefficient.
At some point you gotta look jn the mirror and ask yourself: am I actually being effective in my effort to get (as many) women as possible? Or am I chasing a dragon while wasting time and money (perhaps self inflicting damage thus ironically enough killing my actual chances?)
The art is to combine it all somehow: to both become as " 6-ish" as possible AND contain but yet maintain your desire for women.You have to find a place where you can:
- become the best version of yourself
- enjoy the environment where there are also women so its not JUST about women
- learn game so IF you attract a woman you can keep her
I love my job. So. it’s hard to compare.
This is an important one: make sure you LOVE your job. So you can (again)combine it all: make money to live a better life and simultaneously attract women due to having more to offer.
I actually go to the gym because I fvcking like it, I wanna get better jobs cause that's a challenge for me, I dance cause I fvcking like it, I'm very social cause I like talking to people, tease them, have a good laugh, talk about common interests.
I won't deny that it helped me attract more women and keeping them around, which is one tbe feedbacks that a man is doing good for him
And this. Same as my previous point: combine it.
Might as well add that being fit = better performance at the job, faster recovery, challenging yourself ect.
Oh ,and you might attract more women.
So we already covered two sixes ,we can enjoy doing these activities/obligations AND we can feed our lust for women.