The thin line between becoming a better man and becoming a simp needing hard for pvssy

[Bokanovsky]

Be honest guys…. are you working that extra hours to impress women with a nice car/home/vacation/whatever?

Do you train and diet to get that 6pack really because you want to accomplish it or because it gives you a +1 with women?

Are you doing your 101st cold approach this month because you have fun or because you are in desperate need for pvssy?

1) Cars, homes and vacations are things that one can enjoy even without women.

2) A six pack is completely useless for anything other than attracting women. Unless you are a hardcore narcissist who gets an erection while checking yourself out in the mirror.

3) Who in their right mind does cold approaches “for fun”? Must be the same people who clean their toilets and do dishes for fun.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

Who in their right mind does cold approaches “for fun”? Must be the same people who clean their toilets and do dishes for fun.

I quite enjoy talking with strange women.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

A six pack is completely useless for anything other than attracting women. Unless you are a hardcore narcissist who gets an erection while checking yourself out in the mirror.

I agree, that is why I'm not really attracted to gym babes like these:


Yes, they look cute, but that doesn't come naturally.
I prefer women like these:

 

[honeybadger]

I have to admit I do goals just for for the challenge to compete against myself and then I do stuff almost purely for getting women ( or at least getting better with women).

I agree that there might be a very thin line between being better man vs starting being desperate to gain some pvssy. It could be sometimes hard because of emotions of the man towards a woman. Sometimes a guy is so head over heels in love with a chick while at the same time she does barely anything for him outside a regular (in better cases) lukewarm s3x. If he has a good friends, they see it and tell him about it, alas, he is so emotionally attached that he refuses to see how it is. Happened to me also in the past.

In the end it really boils down to act and behave in a manner that one can be proud of himself (or herself for that matter). Set the goals and achieve. And don't search for love, fellas. Although I know that this word is being used here rarely it really is something we all human beings search for. Either be it in one form or the other. Do not look for it. Do your best, enjoy the good times, endure the hard times and when the time comes it will find you. Just be opened to it. For those who just want to spin the plates and nothing more this view is insignificant but that is another story.

 

[SpartanWarrior77]

It keeps amazing me how many hoops some guys here are willing to jump through just to get pvssy.

We know that women want the three 6´s (6ft tall, 6pack, 6figure income) or better alongside a list of other things.

It is what it takes to be in the top 1% or better of men, which gives you an opportunity to hit on 8+ women.


In general, most guys are quite easy to satisfy and not as much consumers as women.
Most of us would be happy sitting in a cabin in the woods, fishing/hunting/shooting/gaming/drinking/whatever all day long with our buddies if it weren’t for pvssy.

Be honest guys…. are you working that extra hours to impress women with a nice car/home/vacation/whatever?

Do you train and diet to get that 6pack really because you want to accomplish it or because it gives you a +1 with women?

Are you doing your 101st cold approach this month because you have fun or because you are in desperate need for pvssy?

When does a man stop becoming better and starts being a simp needing hard for pvssy?

I mean, we are talking about a finite resource, we are spending in pursuit of pvssy and that’s lifetime.

What do you do especially and only to get more/better women?

At what point do you guys say its enough, pvssy aint worth it?

How much of your lifetime are you investing in the procurement of pvssy?

Sometimes I feel like it's impossible to seperate women from one's perspective on his aims/objectives. Women are a hardwired part of our pyshce. We EXIST because of selection from women. There's no seperating the two.

That being said, yes, women are natural motivators for many of the things we do. We are biological creatures. Almost everything is about survival and procreation on some level.

Chasing pvssy and not getting rewarded is a different story though. I recently decided to take a break from game cuz im not enjoying it and not getting rewarded consistently enough. However, Im gonna revamp my approach and work on myself so that I could go to places in the future where I'll get better results i.e travel, etc.

Is it the only reason Im doing all these things? I don't think so. As a man, you get to enjoy all kinds of pleasures and freedoms when u upgrade ur lifestyle, notably access to more interesting people and opportunities that engage you on an intellectual level for instance.

 

[CAPSLOCK BANDIT]

I always enjoy your posts here OP.

It does get irritating interfacing with the same tired old strategy that some posters may use on here or at least talk about and try to defend, there are definitely some high risk offenders like poster JakeGylenhal, Bingo is also getting up there.

There isn't any work around for the hard work, if you wanna play hard, you gotta buckle down and get the work done.

Ive seen a few posters now say "You need to dominate her mind!" and not one of them can explain how that would work or what that even means to begin with, like go away you Friggin troglodyte, just put the work in or get used to being alone, period.