"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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man life is freakin weird, there is this girl that i gave little attention to, and told myself woah shes cute. I noticed looks from her but never gave importance until one day i sat facing her. Anyways to make a long story short she eyed me like crazy. Anyways that has been happening for two weeks but i kept my cool until last week when i cracked her shell and SHE came over to me and a couple of friends talking about an exam we had taken and i remained cool and she started after me for approval even though my friends were answering her questions.... its like she wasnt satisfied unless i answered her.... anyways another important detail is how girls tell u something that...... **** its hard to explain its getting me mixed up anyways as we were walking down she told me that " YOu know that i sit in the front," shes sayin that indirectly.... she knows that i notice her and vice versa..... sorry for boring you anyways my strategy is to remain the same and bust her balls.... any advice
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sapphire

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She giving you clear signals that she is interested and wants you to make a move before someone else does.

Stop with the games, grab your ballz and ask her out already. ;)
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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Originally posted by whiteee
my strategy is to remain the same and bust her balls.... any advice
bust her balls? are you sure this is a girl? :p
 

whiteee

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hehe nice.... so im not really late cuz this happened last friday and havent seen her since..... but isnt it too soon to ask her out i should get her number already...... what do u guys think?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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if you do not know her well, then just ask her if she wants to hang out, do not mention date, then as things move on you can ask her out.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oda

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once you notice you are putting her in a weird situation, one that she can't handle, thats when you should make your move
 

whiteee

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do u guys know anything about when a person mirrors ur moves unconsciously, if im correct it means they are noticing you on a subconscious level is that right or am i talking out of my ass........
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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i think thats a good thing, well i have heard talk about it
 

whiteee

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check mate..... thanks buddy for answering my replies.......... to me this situation, is to get her number in a week (at the most) to be able to take advantage of coming exams....... how do u deal with the shy type.....
 

whiteee

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for now im sure she is the shy type, they are so annoying to deal with since u dont know their motives......
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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