"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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man life is freakin weird, there is this girl that i gave little attention to, and told myself woah shes cute. I noticed looks from her but never gave importance until one day i sat facing her. Anyways to make a long story short she eyed me like crazy. Anyways that has been happening for two weeks but i kept my cool until last week when i cracked her shell and SHE came over to me and a couple of friends talking about an exam we had taken and i remained cool and she started after me for approval even though my friends were answering her questions.... its like she wasnt satisfied unless i answered her.... anyways another important detail is how girls tell u something that...... **** its hard to explain its getting me mixed up anyways as we were walking down she told me that " YOu know that i sit in the front," shes sayin that indirectly.... she knows that i notice her and vice versa..... sorry for boring you anyways my strategy is to remain the same and bust her balls.... any advice
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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She giving you clear signals that she is interested and wants you to make a move before someone else does.

Stop with the games, grab your ballz and ask her out already. ;)
 

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Originally posted by whiteee
my strategy is to remain the same and bust her balls.... any advice
bust her balls? are you sure this is a girl? :p
 

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hehe nice.... so im not really late cuz this happened last friday and havent seen her since..... but isnt it too soon to ask her out i should get her number already...... what do u guys think?
 

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if you do not know her well, then just ask her if she wants to hang out, do not mention date, then as things move on you can ask her out.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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once you notice you are putting her in a weird situation, one that she can't handle, thats when you should make your move
 

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do u guys know anything about when a person mirrors ur moves unconsciously, if im correct it means they are noticing you on a subconscious level is that right or am i talking out of my ass........
 

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i think thats a good thing, well i have heard talk about it
 

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check mate..... thanks buddy for answering my replies.......... to me this situation, is to get her number in a week (at the most) to be able to take advantage of coming exams....... how do u deal with the shy type.....
 

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for now im sure she is the shy type, they are so annoying to deal with since u dont know their motives......
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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