man life is freakin weird, there is this girl that i gave little attention to, and told myself woah shes cute. I noticed looks from her but never gave importance until one day i sat facing her. Anyways to make a long story short she eyed me like crazy. Anyways that has been happening for two weeks but i kept my cool until last week when i cracked her shell and SHE came over to me and a couple of friends talking about an exam we had taken and i remained cool and she started after me for approval even though my friends were answering her questions.... its like she wasnt satisfied unless i answered her.... anyways another important detail is how girls tell u something that...... **** its hard to explain its getting me mixed up anyways as we were walking down she told me that " YOu know that i sit in the front," shes sayin that indirectly.... she knows that i notice her and vice versa..... sorry for boring you anyways my strategy is to remain the same and bust her balls.... any advice
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
the tables have turned
- Thread starter whiteee
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
bust her balls? are you sure this is a girl?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
if you do not know her well, then just ask her if she wants to hang out, do not mention date, then as things move on you can ask her out.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i think thats a good thing, well i have heard talk about it
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.