man life is freakin weird, there is this girl that i gave little attention to, and told myself woah shes cute. I noticed looks from her but never gave importance until one day i sat facing her. Anyways to make a long story short she eyed me like crazy. Anyways that has been happening for two weeks but i kept my cool until last week when i cracked her shell and SHE came over to me and a couple of friends talking about an exam we had taken and i remained cool and she started after me for approval even though my friends were answering her questions.... its like she wasnt satisfied unless i answered her.... anyways another important detail is how girls tell u something that...... **** its hard to explain its getting me mixed up anyways as we were walking down she told me that " YOu know that i sit in the front," shes sayin that indirectly.... she knows that i notice her and vice versa..... sorry for boring you anyways my strategy is to remain the same and bust her balls.... any advice
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
the tables have turned
- Thread starter whiteee
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
bust her balls? are you sure this is a girl?
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
if you do not know her well, then just ask her if she wants to hang out, do not mention date, then as things move on you can ask her out.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i think thats a good thing, well i have heard talk about it
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.