"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
insanity
Master Don Juan
it's like when you read a book by brian tracy or dr.murphy. if you believe the stuff that they are writing about it will change the way you think and it truly will create miracles in you.
anyways back to the girl. i came to sosuave and i banged into the tip my sh@t theory. to me it was gold and it made sense. i believed everytrhing about that post and i took action and my god it work. was it confidence? or was it the post that i believed in so much that worked?
belief is the key!
insanity
Master Don Juan
some posts here at the forum are about people getting ready to go off to school and whats the first thing on their minds? how do i make friends? how do i meet women?
i ask what about school?
the posts that really grabbed my attention here were the ones that didn't focus on women. it was about getting hobbies, finding a passion, and truly enjoy life and that will attract women your way.
bbestar
Banned
That's kinds of the main point, that I wholeheartedly agree with. Guys get the "bug" of their sexual aggression, and it never leaves them. It consumes them. And their conquest for that one prized woman is a bitter end, because they realize once they have her, which they never do, but once they "think they" do, then all is set. Quite the opposite. In reality, that's when the SEARCH begins for THEMSELVES. That's when they try to found out WHO they are. Because while they spent their most prized possession, their youth, jumping through hoops to get women to satisfy their biological urges, time and opportunity passed them by.
A woman is what a woman is. She will only be BETTER for you, when you are the best TO YOURSELF that you can be. When you don't really NEED outside counsel to get through an issue. When you can find happiness on your own and handle her whimsical ways. A woman is what she is, like an ocean is at times rough and violent. You wouldn't find a calm ocean, anymore than you would find a calm woman. But guys come to these such sites trying to MANIPULATE reality. They either think it will end with finding the PERFECT woman, or the PERFECT tactic, when the REAL paradox is that THEY are to blame. You won't find the BEST woman, but you will find one with whom the worst times aren't so bad, and the best times are the BEST with her that they can be. What makes woman, woman is just that sort of nature, but men are not normally PREPARED to handle her.
It's not any stretch of my imagination to think of a guy going off into the woods for his own good, returning a man, and being able to handle the most prized woman he can find. That's far better than forever remaining a young boy, chasing prized arse, but never really growing up to handle more mature, more beautiful women.
This is the odd paradox to this site. When you come, the PRIMARY driver is HER. Getting the one. Getting her. Or getting many women. IN any event, you continue on, learning the PRIMARY piece is YOU. In figuring that out. The dissolution of MANY relationships is because the person entering any kind of relationship IS NOT TRUE TO WHO THEY ARE. And many guys falter here, because they get the woman, but HOW they got her isn't who he really is. It's easy to WEAR DJ tactics in the short-run, but over the long-run your tendencies come out, and whatever habits you put in play, so that you reveal your inner you and your beliefs, whatever they may be. And then you're back at ground zero. SOOO many new and old posts are....
"Guys I came here like 1 year ago, began dating, had lots of success, worked on myself, got a bunch of women, then began dating one girl seriously. We were great. But then she got weird, and blah, blah, blah. No I'm committed to myself and this site again and the path."
What happened? You fell of the path. Lost hold of the truth. Put the SECONDARY (her) primary, and made the PRIMARY (you) secondary. Foolish. It isn't starting from square one, you were on the path, you fell off, now get back on.
A woman DOES not bring anything to you you don't already have, which is happiness. SHE AUGMENTS WHAT YOU HAVE. Alot of problems occur in a relationship because a guy isn't HONEST. TRULY honest. Guy finds girl, and does what's BEST for the relationship, and not necessarily HER or HIM. Thereby, "lying" to her. This creates a false image of who you are and it creates problems, because when you try to SPRING it back toward where it should be, her history with you is based on a different guy. If you're true to you, you have alot of greatness ahead of you.
A-Unit
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
insanity
Master Don Juan
then 1 day i seen him studying for a exam that all the doctors in my district had to do. after the exam a week later the marks were posted and my dad walked out all humble. he made the top marks.... i said to him, wow your smarter than i thought and i asked him how he beat out the chinese doctors. he told me he imagined walking up to that board and seeing his name at the top of the list. he wanted number 1...he got number 1
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can someone please post a working link for this video...I really want to see what this is all about
www.utorrent.com
Get the torrent from:
www.mininova.org
Enjoy!
-AudiTy =o
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
God I hate bittorrents.
Try this:Scrumtulescence said:
In uTorrent go to Options > Preferences > Connection
and keep hitting 'Random port' until you get one between like 30,000 and 60,000. You may need to then right click the torrent and hit Stop > Force Re-check > Start.
Hope that helps.
-AudiTy =o
bbestar
Banned
When I got to the parking area, just ahead of me a big van parked at the best spot just 10 seconds ahead of me. I said to myself, I was thankful for this person and still feeling good that I deserve the best.
The amazing thing is after about 15 seconds of waiting the same guy reversed from the best spot and just drove past me. I was like wow, I have the best spot..
Just amazing, Glory to God.
I now have solid evidence that you become what you think about.
A few weeks ago I decided to try something.
I have a white pigment spot on my skin to the left of stomach (it's been there since I was 10 or something when I had a little thingy removed there. And I'm 19 now). I said to myself: "I'm going to manifest it to be normal skin"
I just looked at it from time to time and visualised it to be normal skin.
Nothing happened for 3-4 weeks. Then one day (two days ago). I didn't think about it that much anymore. Looked at it. And it's starting to resolve! I can't believe it. It stayed the same for 9 years and now when I visualize it being normal skin it's starting to change into normal skin!
It's not entirely gone yet but I keep you guys updated.
This is measerable proof that you become what you think about (for me atleast, hehe)
I'm not convinced that you can attract anything you want to, but this is very interesting.
I'm hyped!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Your subconcious makes this happen. It follows the instructions you have programmed into it (by holding thoughts and pictures in your concious mind) and continues to do so untill you change the instructions.
So when I handed over the instructions about how my skin on that spot should be the same as the rest of my skin, (instead of pale white) (I did so by visualising) my subconcious mind started bringing that into reality.
It's no hocus pocus man. It's just the way the mind and body work.
I couldn't care less whether you believe it or not. I have the proof I need. I could go on and try to convince you but I think it's better if you try it out for yourself on something that's really measurable so you can have your own proof.
Brian20o2
Master Don Juan
I don't disprove it, I don't know if you've seen that Adam guy who does remote (dream) healing. You book a session and he tells you to make sure you're lying down at 6pm (whatever) so he can analyse you from wherever he happens to be, then he heals you.Holland said:
He said from when he was small he saw a glowing aura around people, so it was easy for him to win at hide 'n' seek. He was on a popular chat show here in the UK and it all seemed pretty legit, he has tons of testimonials, so I don't discount the powers of the human body, I just said it was weird... Which it is.
So Holland, where do you think the limits lie for regular people to do this? What's possible to change about the human body in your opinion?
Maybe if I visualise having a huge (I mean even HOOGER!) schlong...hmm
-AudiTy =o
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Master Don Juan
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.