You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
So you pritty much waisted 6 years of your life and gained nothing. cool.organizedconfusion said:welcome to 2001..for me actually..i learned about all of these teachings waaaay when i was only 20 or so,i even misapplied some of the techniques and got into serious trouble.Good sh*t though,if i knew this stuff growing up- i would've done some things differently.All in all,you become what you think about and you sub-conciosly attract the things and situations into your life that coencide with your inner beliefs systems basicly,theres alot more to it then that but that seems to be the general mantra of it all...Imagination and visualization is also a big part of it. i used to be SOO into this type of stuff,i even took about 6 years out of my life just to master it.All in all,i am the same person and though i do know alot about how this system and how the mind works and does things for us..i still dwell on the negative aspects and i still kinda just use it haphazardly and not really focus or hone in all of my true potential.
It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.bbestar said:Its all about having faith, things that are unseen.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wolf116 said:So you pritty much waisted 6 years of your life and gained nothing. cool.
This has totally put me off waisting my life thinking about this stuff
wow, you sound as wise as a bag of d*cks.wide bikes,box in the wing,scewing my gurl.you don't sound too smart,maybe you should keep your mouth shut and do what you do best..being a brainless tool :rockon:wolf116 said:It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.
Take action to get what you want. Dont dream about being rich. Go do it if thats what you want. study the stockmarket or get a buisness or some $h!t.
Me I dont care about all that stuff. I just love rideing motor bikes, fighting in the ring. and screwing my girl. I'm doing it all.
Everyone has seen those hippy dudes that dream all day but do nothing. Dont let this rubbish brainwash you (It almost got me).
possitive thinking and visuliseing are good tools. Everyone alredy knows that tho.
let me quess...you still sound out your word while you type? real classy :woo: i bet you don't even do half the s*it you say you do...wolf116 said:It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.
Take action to get what you want. Dont dream about being rich. Go do it if thats what you want. study the stockmarket or get a buisness or some $h!t.
Me I dont care about all that stuff. I just love rideing motor bikes, fighting in the ring. and screwing my girl. I'm doing it all.
Everyone has seen those hippy dudes that dream all day but do nothing. Dont let this rubbish brainwash you (It almost got me).
possitive thinking and visuliseing are good tools. Everyone alredy knows that tho.
I study mechanicial engineering at uni. I aint dumb. only at english. It just seems the whole video is focused on money. money brings no happiness. Im just saying all the things that make me happy are cheap.organizedconfusion said:wow, you sound as wise as a bag of d*cks.wide bikes,box in the wing,scewing my gurl.you don't sound too smart,maybe you should keep your mouth shut and do what you do best..being a brainless tool :rockon:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.