Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
So you pritty much waisted 6 years of your life and gained nothing. cool.organizedconfusion said:welcome to 2001..for me actually..i learned about all of these teachings waaaay when i was only 20 or so,i even misapplied some of the techniques and got into serious trouble.Good sh*t though,if i knew this stuff growing up- i would've done some things differently.All in all,you become what you think about and you sub-conciosly attract the things and situations into your life that coencide with your inner beliefs systems basicly,theres alot more to it then that but that seems to be the general mantra of it all...Imagination and visualization is also a big part of it. i used to be SOO into this type of stuff,i even took about 6 years out of my life just to master it.All in all,i am the same person and though i do know alot about how this system and how the mind works and does things for us..i still dwell on the negative aspects and i still kinda just use it haphazardly and not really focus or hone in all of my true potential.
It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.bbestar said:Its all about having faith, things that are unseen.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
wolf116 said:So you pritty much waisted 6 years of your life and gained nothing. cool.
This has totally put me off waisting my life thinking about this stuff
wow, you sound as wise as a bag of d*cks.wide bikes,box in the wing,scewing my gurl.you don't sound too smart,maybe you should keep your mouth shut and do what you do best..being a brainless tool :rockon:wolf116 said:It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.
Take action to get what you want. Dont dream about being rich. Go do it if thats what you want. study the stockmarket or get a buisness or some $h!t.
Me I dont care about all that stuff. I just love rideing motor bikes, fighting in the ring. and screwing my girl. I'm doing it all.
Everyone has seen those hippy dudes that dream all day but do nothing. Dont let this rubbish brainwash you (It almost got me).
possitive thinking and visuliseing are good tools. Everyone alredy knows that tho.
let me quess...you still sound out your word while you type? real classy :woo: i bet you don't even do half the s*it you say you do...wolf116 said:It's all about doing $h!t and sotp dreaming. Stop haveing faith and start questining. find your own answers.
Take action to get what you want. Dont dream about being rich. Go do it if thats what you want. study the stockmarket or get a buisness or some $h!t.
Me I dont care about all that stuff. I just love rideing motor bikes, fighting in the ring. and screwing my girl. I'm doing it all.
Everyone has seen those hippy dudes that dream all day but do nothing. Dont let this rubbish brainwash you (It almost got me).
possitive thinking and visuliseing are good tools. Everyone alredy knows that tho.
I study mechanicial engineering at uni. I aint dumb. only at english. It just seems the whole video is focused on money. money brings no happiness. Im just saying all the things that make me happy are cheap.organizedconfusion said:wow, you sound as wise as a bag of d*cks.wide bikes,box in the wing,scewing my gurl.you don't sound too smart,maybe you should keep your mouth shut and do what you do best..being a brainless tool :rockon:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.